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Alexandra Barchitta

LMHC

Alexandra Barchitta , LMHC

Therapist in New York

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About Alexandra

Alexandra Barchitta is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, and self-esteem struggles. She works with clients who are navigating LGBT issues and related concerns. Her style is direct and practical and she aims to make therapy easy to understand.

Alexandra uses a multicultural feminist perspective to center identity and social context in sessions. She combines practical skills with attention to how culture, gender, and power affect daily life. Sessions often include short exercises and concrete steps clients can try between meetings.

Her background includes work focused on substance use and queer-affirming care. Alexandra brings four years of clinical experience and holds a New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor credential. She draws on several evidence-based methods to tailor the work to each person.

In a typical visit she listens for what feels most urgent, then helps clients set small, achievable goals. She supports people through relationship and family-of-origin issues, grief over abandonment, struggles with identity, and patterns like dependent personality or dissociation. She also addresses chronic pain, illness, and the emotional fallout of domestic violence and substance use.

People who prefer clear guidance and practical tools often find this approach helpful. Alexandra emphasizes collaboration and ongoing adjustment of goals so the work stays relevant to each client’s life.

Approaches that translate well to online care

Alexandra uses evidence-based techniques that work well in remote sessions. Cognitive behavioral approaches break problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions and teach concrete skills to shift unhelpful patterns; this is useful for anxiety, depression, and stress. Skills-focused approaches that borrow from dialectical methods help people manage strong emotions and improve communication through brief practices and coping strategies. Motivational interviewing supports people who are unsure about change by exploring values and building readiness one step at a time.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work and a collaborative process. Alexandra will listen to goals, assess what feels most urgent, and recommend techniques to try. She adjusts methods over time so the pace and tools match each person’s needs and preferences.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet. Video calls allow fuller face-to-face interaction, phone sessions can be quieter and use less bandwidth, live chat is good for shorter check-ins, and text-based messaging supports ongoing processing between appointments. These formats make it easier to fit sessions into busy lives and to keep continuity when schedules change.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can I bring to sessions?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, and self-esteem concerns. Additional focus areas include attachment and abandonment issues, gender dysphoria, and family of origin problems.

What is her general therapy approach and style?

She uses a multicultural feminist perspective and practical, evidence-based techniques. Sessions emphasize skills, short exercises, and clear steps clients can try between meetings.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has four years of experience working with substance use concerns and LGBT-related issues. That background informs her practical and identity-aware approach.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with a New York LMHC credential. Her practice is listed as New York.

What languages are supported and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

Which session formats are available?

Sessions are available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options let clients choose what fits their schedule and communication preference.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription model. The subscription can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. Then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issues

Experience

4+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

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