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Dr. Amanda Baker

LMFT

Dr. Amanda Baker , LMFT

Therapist in New York

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About Amanda

Dr. Amanda Baker is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) based in New York. She helps people dealing with stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy concerns, trauma, depression, and issues related to sexuality and identity. Her style is straightforward and supportive, aimed at helping clients feel heard and find practical next steps.

Dr. Baker focuses on building a collaborative plan that fits each person's life. She uses client-centered methods to follow what matters most to the client. She also draws on approaches like cognitive behavioral therapy and attachment-based work when those tools match the goals.

Clients often come for help after relationship breaches, during major life changes, or when managing ongoing anxiety and mood struggles. She also works with people facing issues around body image, sexual expression including BDSM and kink, blended family challenges, and addiction-related concerns. She treats intimacy-related issues and supports people navigating LGBT and HIV/AIDS related matters.

With ten years of experience, Dr. Baker blends practical skills and guided conversation. Sessions typically focus on clear goals, coping skills, and improving communication patterns. She encourages clients to try small changes between sessions and reviews what works.

Her practice offers multiple online formats to fit different schedules. People who prefer a conversational, goal-focused approach may find her method helpful for short-term coaching or longer therapeutic work.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on helping people notice their thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It can help with anxiety, depression, and decisions about relationships by clarifying what matters and practicing small, value-based steps. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationship patterns affect current connections. This work helps people identify repeating patterns in intimacy and communication and learn new ways to connect and repair.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Dr. Baker will discuss goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before. She collaborates with clients to try methods that feel useful and adjusts the plan as progress is made.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video calls are useful for full conversations and nonverbal cues, phone sessions require less bandwidth, live chat can be a shorter check-in, and text messaging lets someone share thoughts between sessions. These options make it easier to schedule care around work, parenting, or travel and to keep therapy consistent over time.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship and intimacy problems, and many sexual health concerns including BDSM and kink topics.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centered and practical. She listens first, then uses tools from CBT, attachment work, and other approaches that match a client's goals.

What kind of experience does she bring?

She has ten years of clinical experience working with individuals, couples, and families on trauma, infidelity, anxiety, sexual concerns, and related issues.

Where is she licensed and practicing?

She is a New York licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) practicing from New York.

In which languages are sessions offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available online?

Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on what the client prefers.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issues

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

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