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Brenda Lauer

LPC

Brenda Lauer , LPC

Therapist in Missouri

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About Brenda

Brenda Lauer is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with 15 years of clinical experience. She practices in Missouri and has spent many years helping people facing anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, anger, and stress. Brenda brings a calm, warm presence to sessions and focuses on meeting people where they are.

She uses straightforward, practical methods rather than one-size-fits-all plans. Brenda listens first, then helps clients decide which tools will work best for them. That approach includes techniques that target thoughts and behaviors, build emotional connection, and increase present-moment awareness.

Brenda has worked with people from many backgrounds and many different concerns, including chronic illness and caregiver stress, body image and relationship communication problems, adoption and foster care questions, and issues related to aging. Her experience also covers trauma, ADHD, and mood disorders among other challenges.

Sessions are collaborative and paced to each person. Brenda emphasizes respect, empathy, and clear communication while helping people try new skills and small changes. She frames therapy as teamwork rather than directives.

People who prefer a warm, practical counselor may find her style a good fit. She helps people sort goals, practice skills between sessions, and track small progress steps toward healthier daily routines.

Practical therapeutic approaches for online care

Brenda uses a mix of approaches that are easy to apply in online sessions. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, and then commit to small value-driven actions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and trying new behaviors to reduce anxiety and depression. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) supports people in naming and processing strong emotions, which can be useful for trauma, grief, and interpersonal struggles.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. She will listen to your concerns, talk through options, and help you choose methods that match your goals and preferences. Decisions about focus and techniques are collaborative and can shift as progress is made.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction when visual cues help the work. Phone sessions can be a simpler option when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging support quick reflections, between-session coaching, or a way to stay connected between scheduled visits. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life while keeping the process consistent and goal oriented.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, and depression, and also supports people dealing with issues like adoption and foster care, caregiving strain, body image, and chronic illness.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is warm and client-centered. She listens first, then uses practical tools drawn from cognitive and mindfulness-based methods to help people make changes.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 15 years of experience as a therapist working in private practice settings with a wide variety of concerns and backgrounds.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Missouri.

Can someone work with her if they live outside the U.S.?

She accepts international clients and offers services that can be scheduled across time zones.

Which session formats are available?

Sessions can be delivered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging depending on client preference.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What do I do to begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Solution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Licensed

Missouri

Languages

English

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