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Cheri Gillings

BACP

Cheri Gillings , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Cheri

Cheri Gillings is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression and recovery from addictions. She also helps with self-esteem, motivation, confidence and career or executive coaching. Cheri aims to create an open, non-judgemental space so clients can talk honestly about their thoughts and feelings. Taking the first step toward a more fulfilling life can feel hard, and she offers steady support during that process.

Cheri uses practical, conversational methods rather than medical language. Sessions focus on everyday changes that make life easier. She draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice thoughts without being ruled by them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools are used to identify unhelpful thinking and try small behaviour changes.

Client-Centred approaches shape the relationship in sessions, with empathy and listening at the core. Mindfulness techniques are introduced for stress, anxiety and managing strong emotions. Solution-Focused ideas help people set clear, reachable goals and track small wins.

Over six years of work in the UK has given Cheri experience with a wide range of concerns, including relationship strain, grief, eating issues, bipolar mood difficulties and compassion fatigue. She also supports people dealing with abandonment, attachment wounds, codependency and family of origin problems.

Therapy can be conducted in several remote formats including video calls, phone, live chat or text messaging. Sessions are arranged through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. Cheri works in English and does not take international clients.

How Cheri’s approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice and accept difficult thoughts and feelings while committing to actions that match their values. It is often used for anxiety, stress and motivation challenges. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on spotting unhelpful thinking patterns and testing small behaviour changes to reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning.

These methods are offered alongside a Client-Centred way of working where the therapeutic relationship matters most. Finding the right approach is a collaborative process - the therapist will listen to what matters to the client, try different techniques, and adjust the plan based on what helps most. Clients and therapist work together to set goals and measure progress.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that is helpful. Phone sessions can be a better fit when bandwidth is limited or a camera is not wanted. Live chat and text messaging support shorter check-ins or ongoing reflection between sessions. These options give flexibility so therapy can fit around work, family and daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Cheri support?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions and low self-esteem. Other areas include relationship difficulties, grief, eating concerns and coping with life changes.

What is her style in sessions?

Her approach is calm and conversational, prioritising listening and practical steps. The aim is to make small, manageable changes rather than focus on jargon.

What background does she bring to therapy?

She has six years of professional therapeutic work experience in the United Kingdom. That experience includes working with people recovering from addiction and those facing occupational stress.

Which credential does she hold and where is she based?

Cheri holds BACP as a credential and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and she does not accept international clients at this time.

What formats are available for sessions?

Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging. These options let people choose what fits their schedule and needs.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. The exact cost varies with location and therapist availability.

How do I begin working with Cheri?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsSelf esteemCoachingCompassion fatigue

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefEating disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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