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Cynthia Cunningham

LMFT

Cynthia Cunningham , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Cynthia

Cynthia Cunningham is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California with 27 years of clinical experience. She draws on long personal recovery - 35 years sober - and lived experience with co-dependency and love addiction to relate to people facing similar struggles. Cynthia speaks plainly and aims to make therapy feel practical and achievable for people under stress.

She commonly helps with addictions, anxiety, depression, bipolar concerns, and trouble coping with life changes. Cynthia also supports people working through relationship pain, intimacy issues, grief, low self-esteem, and anger. She uses straightforward methods so clients can see small changes that add up.

Cynthia blends cognitive behavioral techniques with attachment-informed and client-centered approaches. Sessions focus on real-life skills - setting boundaries, managing panic or depressive symptoms, and changing unhelpful patterns in relationships. She invites clients to guide the pace and priorities of therapy so work matches their goals.

People often come for help with sleep and eating concerns, career stress, or ADHD-related struggles alongside mood symptoms. Cynthia also addresses body image, codependency, caregiver strain, blended-family stress, and other overlapping issues. She explains steps clearly and offers practical tools to try between sessions.

Her style is direct but compassionate. She describes herself as a companion on the journey rather than an authority. Clients who appreciate plain language, long-term experience, and a focus on changing habits may find her approach a good fit.

How Cynthia’s Approaches Work Online

Cynthia uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help people notice unhelpful thoughts and focus on values-based action. ACT can be useful for anxiety, depression, and making changes that matter in everyday life.

She also draws on Attachment-Based Therapy to look at how early relationship patterns affect adult bonds and reactions. This approach helps people understand connection and rebuild trust in relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Cynthia collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals and preferences. She checks in about what’s working and adjusts the focus so therapy stays useful and relevant.

Online formats offer flexible ways to keep therapy consistent. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and nonverbal cues, phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports shorter check-ins, and text-based messaging can help maintain contact between appointments. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and to continue progress across different settings.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she address?

Cynthia works with a wide range of concerns including addictions, anxiety, depression, bipolar symptoms, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, self-esteem, anger, and coping with life changes.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is direct and practical, focusing on clear steps clients can try between sessions and on helping people set and keep boundaries in relationships.

How much experience does she have?

She has 27 years of clinical experience and many years of personal recovery, which she draws on to inform her work.

Where is she licensed and practicing?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging as ways to connect.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsAnger managementSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodHypnotherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

27+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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