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Danielle DePalma

LCSW

Danielle DePalma , LCSW

Therapist in New York

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About Danielle

Danielle DePalma is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) practicing in New York with more than two decades of experience. She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and relationship concerns. Her approach is respectful and down-to-earth, shaped by many years supporting clients through major life changes.

Danielle trained in psychology and social work, and she draws on practical methods to help people feel steadier. She focuses on understanding each person's situation before offering tools that fit their life. Sessions are meant to be collaborative and straightforward so clients can try things between meetings.

She uses a mix of approaches depending on what the person needs. That can include client-centered conversations, skills from cognitive behavioral therapy to spot and shift unhelpful thinking, and techniques from dialectical behavior therapy to manage intense emotions. She also brings experience addressing trauma and intimacy-related concerns when they come up.

Danielle often works with issues connected to family, parenting, adoption and foster care, attachment, and blended family dynamics. She also supports people dealing with caregiver stress, cancer-related strain, fertility and fertility-related concerns, and career or identity questions including LGBT concerns.

Her tone in sessions is warm and straightforward. Danielle focuses on small, workable steps that fit into busy lives. If someone wants a therapist who listens closely and helps build practical coping strategies, her style is collaborative and goal-oriented.

Approaches that inform online care

Client-centered therapy emphasizes understanding where a person is and following their lead. It focuses on listening, empathy, and helping people make choices that match their values. Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, looks at patterns of thinking and behavior and teaches practical steps to change unhelpful thoughts and routines. It can help with anxiety, depression, and stress by breaking problems into manageable tasks. Dialectical behavior therapy, DBT, introduces concrete skills for managing intense emotions, improving distress tolerance, and strengthening relationships.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Danielle will talk with the person about their goals, what has or hasn't helped in the past, and what feels most useful. She collaborates to try methods and adjusts plans based on what fits the person's life and progress.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video allows face-to-face conversation when schedules permit, phone can be easier when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed, and messaging supports brief updates or ongoing reflection between meetings. These options help people fit therapy around work, caregiving, or travel while keeping a steady therapeutic relationship with licensed professionals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Danielle address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, and life changes. Additional areas include parenting, caregiver stress, adoption and foster care concerns, and LGBTQ related questions.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is warm and client-centered, focusing on listening first. She offers practical tools and collaborates with people to set goals they can try between sessions.

What experience does she bring?

Danielle has 22 years of professional experience working with a broad range of concerns, including trauma, mood challenges, and relationship problems.

Where is she licensed and practicing?

She is a licensed clinical social worker, LCSW, practicing in New York.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Danielle sees people over video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.

How does cost and billing work?

Session costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

22+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

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