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Deana Porter

LMFT

Deana Porter , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Deana

Deana Porter is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on relationship and personal recovery work. She brings 29 years of experience helping people navigate relationship conflict, trauma, intimacy struggles, and mood concerns like depression and bipolar disorder. She approaches sessions with respect, sensitivity, and compassion.

Clients meet a therapist who listens first and then tailors conversations to their situation. Deana uses clear, practical strategies that match each person's goals. She helps people build skills for stress, anxiety, grief, and self-esteem challenges.

Her work also addresses parenting and blended family issues, adoption and foster care questions, and caregiver stress. Communication problems, codependency, commitment worries, and family of origin concerns are common topics brought into sessions. She supports people coping with major life changes and compassion fatigue.

Deana draws on methods such as cognitive behavioral techniques, dialectical behavior therapy skills, the Gottman Method for relationship work, and Internal Family Systems ideas. Those approaches are used to help clients change unhelpful patterns, manage intense emotions, and improve close relationships.

Sessions are offered in English and delivered from California. Deana guides people through practical steps, skill-building, and thoughtful reflection so they can move toward clearer decisions and steadier emotional balance.

Approaches that guide online sessions

CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It can help with anxiety, depression, eating and sleeping problems, and day-to-day stress by teaching practical skills for thinking and acting differently.

DBT, or Dialectical Behavior Therapy, emphasizes emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and better interpersonal skills. It is useful for intense emotions, anger, relationship difficulties, and coping when life feels overwhelming. The Gottman Method offers structured tools for improving communication and resolving conflict in close relationships.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss a client's goals, preferences, and history and then recommend strategies to try. Plans are adjusted over time so the work stays aligned with changing needs.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to provide flexibility. Video meetings work well for deeper conversations and visual cues. Phone sessions can be useful when bandwidth is limited or for a shorter check-in. Live chat and text messaging suit people who prefer written communication or need quick, on-the-go support. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life while using approaches like CBT, DBT, and the Gottman Method effectively.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be addressed?

She helps with relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, depression and bipolar mood concerns, and struggles with self-esteem, anxiety, grief, eating and sleeping. Parenting, caregiver stress, and family of origin problems are also within her focus.

What is her therapeutic style?

Sessions combine active listening with practical tools. Therapy focuses on skill-building, emotion regulation, and improving communication in daily life.

How long has she practiced?

She has 29 years of professional experience working with relationship and individual concerns.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a LMFT licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with her from outside the United States?

International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Therapy is available via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How are costs and getting started handled?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyGriefEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodInternal Family Systems

Experience

29+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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