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Deborah Espie

BACP

Deborah Espie , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Deborah

Deborah Espie is a compassionate counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, grief and low mood. She also supports those dealing with addictions, eating concerns, intimacy issues, self-esteem struggles and life changes. Deborah works with adults seeking practical ways to cope and move forward.

She takes a calm, down-to-earth approach that aims to make conversation feel straightforward and manageable. Sessions are tailored to what each person needs and progress is guided at the client's own pace. Deborah draws on eight years of experience and holds BACP registration, which she uses to inform her practice.

Her background includes senior clinical and academic roles that widened her understanding of how people adapt and recover. That experience informs her work with neurodivergent clients and those navigating complex, overlapping issues such as chronic illness, caregiving stress or co-morbidity. She also supports people affected by abandonment, attachment or communication problems.

In sessions she blends client-centred listening with mindfulness and solution-focused techniques. Trauma-focused methods are used when appropriate to address past harm. Deborah sometimes brings creativity into the room, using imagery or reflective exercises to help express what words alone do not.

Therapy can happen by video call, phone, live chat or messaging depending on what suits the person. Costs vary with location and a subscription model is used, which can be cancelled at any time. To begin, people follow the platform Start Therapy process and schedule sessions according to her availability.

How Deborah’s approaches translate to online therapy

Deborah uses client-centred work which means the conversation begins with what matters most to the person. The therapist listens without judgement and helps clients set the pace and topics for exploration. This approach helps with anxiety, low mood and self-esteem by building a steady, respectful working relationship.

She also draws on mindfulness-based techniques that teach simple ways to notice thoughts and physical sensations. These exercises can reduce reactivity and support day-to-day coping with stress, trauma-related distress and chronic worry. Solution-focused methods are used to identify small, practical steps that create change quickly, useful for people seeking clear strategies for specific problems.

Finding the right approach is a shared process. Deborah will discuss options and try methods that fit the person's goals and preferences, adjusting as work progresses. This collaborative stance helps clients feel involved in planning their care and testing what works for them.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls let people maintain visual contact and work more closely with imagery or exercises. Phone sessions are useful when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging suit brief reflections, ongoing notes between sessions or people who prefer writing to speaking. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, caregiving and daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Deborah focus on?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions and eating concerns, as well as career and self-esteem difficulties.

How would she describe her way of working?

The style is calm and practical, with listening that centres the person. Sessions are tailored using client-centred, mindfulness and solution-focused methods and trauma-informed care when needed.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has eight years of clinical experience and has held senior clinical and academic roles that inform how she understands coping and recovery.

Where is Deborah based and what credential does she hold?

Deborah practises from the United Kingdom and is registered with the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What formats are available for online sessions?

Therapy can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and routines.

How are fees and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How does someone begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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