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Elena Balashova-Shamis

CA Psychologist PSY20104

Elena Balashova-Shamis , CA Psychologist PSY20104

Therapist in California

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About Elena

Elena Balashova-Shamis is a California psychologist with over 23 years of clinical experience. She holds the CA Psychologist credential PSY20104 and offers thoughtful, individualized care for people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, and relationship challenges.

She uses an integrative style that draws on long-term psychodynamic ideas alongside practical techniques. Sessions are focused on understanding patterns that cause distress and on testing small changes in everyday life. Conversations are direct and gentle, aimed at helping people feel clearer about their choices.

Elena regularly teaches at local universities and medical programs, which keeps her connected to current research and clinical discussion. That academic work informs how she thinks about complex issues like attachment, abandonment, and dissociation without losing sight of day-to-day needs.

She also works with concerns related to body image, eating and food-related issues, caregiver stress, communication and commitment problems, and recovery after disaster or first responder exposure. Gender dysphoria and forgiveness are additional areas she addresses when they come up in therapy.

Sessions are offered in English and Russian. Elena provides therapy through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different schedules and preferences.

Approaches and Online Care That Fit Your Life

Elena uses integrative, evidence-informed methods to help people understand and change patterns that cause distress. One approach draws on psychodynamic ideas to look at long-standing patterns in relationships and attachment; this helps when concerns feel tied to early experiences or repeated relationship difficulties. Another set of techniques focuses on practical behavioral work that targets anxiety, stress, and depressive symptoms by teaching concrete ways to manage day-to-day reactions and improve coping.

Finding the right approach is collaborative. Elena will work with each person to decide which methods feel most useful based on their goals and preferences. She adjusts the plan as therapy progresses, combining insight-focused work with practical exercises when that makes sense.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different routines. Video calls support face-to-face conversation, phone sessions require less bandwidth, live chat can be quicker check-ins, and text messaging lets people send thoughts between sessions. These formats make it easier to schedule sessions around work, caregiving, or other commitments while keeping therapy consistent and accessible.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and relationship difficulties. Additional focuses include attachment and abandonment, body image, eating-related concerns, caregiver stress, and gender dysphoria.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is integrative and practical, blending psychodynamic thinking with techniques that address daily life. Sessions aim to notice patterns and try small, workable changes.

What is her background and experience?

She has 23 years of clinical experience and teaches at local universities and a medical school. That teaching and scholarly work informs her clinical practice.

Where is she licensed and based?

She practices in California and holds the CA Psychologist credential PSY20104.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Russian. International clients are not currently accepted.

What formats are available for sessions?

She meets with people via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Multiple formats are offered to fit different schedules and needs.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription model. The subscription can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. Then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability listed after matching.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

23+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English, Russian

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