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Ellen Shafer-Lind

LIMHP

Ellen Shafer-Lind , LIMHP

Therapist in Nebraska

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About Ellen

Ellen Shafer-Lind is a Licensed Independent Mental Health Practitioner (LIMHP) who helps people manage stress, anxiety, grief, relationship and intimacy concerns, and issues with depression and addiction. She draws on decades of experience to guide people through life changes and complicated family situations. Ellen focuses on practical steps so clients feel steadier and more capable in daily life.

She keeps sessions straightforward and person-focused. Ellen listens for each person's priorities and offers options that fit their situation. She often uses cognitive behavioral techniques to address unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns and blends other approaches when that makes sense.

Her background includes a Master of Social Work from the University of Nebraska at Omaha and a long clinical career that began in the late 1980s. Ellen has worked in hospital settings and with the Veterans Health Administration, and she now practices privately in Nebraska.

Ellen helps people work through family-of-origin issues, blended family stresses, caregiver strain, and challenges around body image and eating. She also supports people facing trauma, domestic violence, codependency, and grief. Her experience includes work with veteran concerns and a broad range of life transitions.

Sessions are offered in English and can include conversations about coping skills, communication, and problem solving. The aim is to build practical tools and clearer next steps so clients can move forward with more confidence.

Approaches and practical online therapy options

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and responding to what matters most to the client. The therapist follows the client's lead and helps clarify goals and values, which works well for relationship and identity questions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts and behaviors affect feelings and routines. It offers concrete strategies to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and change unhelpful habits.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Ellen will talk with each person about needs, goals, and preferences and then recommend a mix of methods. That conversation is collaborative and can shift as progress is made or priorities change.

Online therapy offers flexibility across formats. Video calls suit longer sessions and face-to-face conversation, while phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or when a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging let people send updates, ask quick questions, or do check-ins between longer sessions. These options make it easier to fit counseling into busy lives and to keep momentum between appointments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Ellen support?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, trauma and abuse, eating and body image concerns, anger, self-esteem, and career or life changes.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Ellen uses a down-to-earth, person-centered approach that focuses on your priorities. She offers practical tools and problem solving alongside listening and empathy.

How much experience does she have?

She brings 36 years of clinical experience, including work in hospital settings and with the Veterans Health Administration before moving to private practice.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds the LIMHP credential and practices in Nebraska. Her education includes a Master of Social Work from the University of Nebraska at Omaha.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and she also accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can be done by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and communication preferences.

How are costs and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Ellen?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

36+ years

Licensed

Nebraska

Languages

English

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