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Ellen Silbert

LICSW

Ellen Silbert , LICSW

Therapist in Massachusetts

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About Ellen

Ellen Silbert is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker who helps people cope with stress, anxiety, grief, parenting challenges, addiction, relationship strain, and other life changes. She works with adults on medical and emotional issues including mood disorders, trauma, and caregiving concerns. Ellen practices with attention to women's issues where relevant to a client's experience.

She trained in clinical social work and holds a Master of Arts in Clinical Social Work from New York University. Ellen brings four decades of experience in many settings, from labor and delivery to hospice care. That range informs how she hears both medical and emotional distress.

Her approach is open-minded and nonjudgmental. Sessions focus on building trust, increasing self-awareness, and practical steps to manage day-to-day problems. She uses conversational methods to help people try new ways of coping and relating.

Ellen works collaboratively and tailors strategies to each person's needs. She draws on client-centered methods, cognitive behavioral ideas, emotionally focused work, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing to shape sessions. The aim is steady progress rather than quick fixes.

She offers messaging, live chat, phone sessions, and video calls. Scheduling can include evenings and weekends at times, and she encourages people to message first if calendar times look limited. Ellen brings calm, steady experience to people facing significant transitions and complex challenges.

Approaches that translate to online care

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and responding to a person's experience without judgment. It helps people feel heard and find their own path forward, which suits issues like self-esteem, grief, and relationship concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions and tests small behavior changes. It is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep difficulties, and some eating-related concerns.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy concentrates on how emotions shape close relationships and personal patterns. It can help people understand attachment, intimacy-related issues, and communication troubles.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to goals, try methods that fit the issue, and adjust plans over time. Clients and the therapist decide together which techniques feel most helpful.

Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls let people use face-to-face conversation when discussing emotional material. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is an issue or to fit a shorter check-in. Live chat and text messaging can support progress between longer sessions and help with brief coaching or check-ins. These options make it easier to maintain continuity during work, caregiving, or health-related demands.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?

Ellen supports people facing stress, anxiety, grief, parenting challenges, addictions, trauma, relationship and intimacy issues, sleep and eating problems, and mood disorders such as depression and bipolar.

How would you describe her therapy style?

She uses a warm, nonjudgmental style that emphasizes trust and practical problem solving. Sessions often focus on understanding emotions and trying small behavior changes.

What is her background and experience?

She holds a Master of Arts in Clinical Social Work from New York University and has about 40 years of experience across settings from labor and delivery to hospice and community care.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a LICSW (Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker) practicing in Massachusetts.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are offered?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for flexible ways to connect.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I get started?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

40+ years

Licensed

Massachusetts

Languages

English

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