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Elli Billingsley

LPC

Elli Billingsley , LPC

Therapist in Oklahoma

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About Elli

Elli Billingsley is a Licensed Professional Counselor practicing in Oklahoma. She earned a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Oklahoma State University. Elli brings three years of counseling experience and a calm, empathetic presence to sessions.

Her style is warm and client-centered. Sessions focus on listening first, then choosing practical steps together. She aims to make people feel heard and respected while they talk through concerns.

Elli blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy - ACT - with client-centered principles and cognitive behavioral strategies. She uses mindfulness and dialectical skills when helpful. Her approach is adapted to each person's goals and priorities.

She has a broad interest in stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, depression, grief, and issues tied to identity and intimacy. The profile notes a focus on LGBT concerns and on parenting and children's mental health among other topics. This background shapes how she frames support and plans next steps.

Elli offers teletherapy in several formats to fit different needs. She works with adults and with children starting at age 5, tailoring activities and techniques for developmental level. Her sessions emphasize clear goals, practical tools, and steady support as people navigate change.

Therapeutic approaches for online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them and focus on actions that align with their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches practical tools to shift unhelpful patterns, which is helpful for depression, anxiety, and some trauma-related symptoms. Client-centered therapy centers the conversation on the person's experience, offering empathy and reflective listening so clients can identify their own solutions and build confidence.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to decide which methods fit their goals, preferences, and the issues they want to address. Plans are adjusted over time based on what is helpful in sessions.

Online options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video allows face-to-face interaction for skills practice, phone can work when bandwidth is limited, chat and messaging suit quick check-ins or people who prefer typing. These formats make it easier to fit sessions around work, school, caregiving, or travel while keeping therapy consistent and accessible.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can be addressed in sessions?

Common topics include stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, identity and intimacy-related issues, parenting and family concerns, eating and body image, ADHD, and career stress.

How would you describe the therapy style?

The approach is warm and client-centered, combining Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, cognitive behavioral tools, mindfulness, and dialectical skills to build practical coping strategies.

What is Elli's background and experience?

Elli holds a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Oklahoma State University and has three years of clinical experience as an LPC in Oklahoma.

Where is Elli licensed and based?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of Oklahoma and provides services from that location.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English only, and international clients are not currently accepted.

What formats are offered for sessions?

Therapy is available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different preferences and schedules.

How does cost and billing work?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Elli?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Licensed

Oklahoma

Languages

English

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