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Esther Fendall

BACP

Esther Fendall , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Esther

Esther Fendall is a counsellor who uses an integrative approach to help people through difficult times. She works at a pace that feels comfortable and aims to create a non-judgemental space where clients can talk openly about what is worrying them.

Her practice focuses on a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, stress, depression, addictions, relationship difficulties and grief. Esther also supports people dealing with parenting strains, eating and body image worries, career pressure, compassion fatigue and trauma and abuse. She pays attention to issues linked to identity and LGBT concerns as well.

Esther holds BACP, which means she is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. She follows the association's ethical framework in her work. Her background includes clinical roles in a drug addiction service, a medical practice and volunteer work with a UK mental health charity.

Over 14 years of practice have given her experience with complex and layered problems such as co-morbidity, codependency, attachment and abandonment issues. She also supports people facing long-term health challenges, caregiving stress, blended family questions and the effects of adoption and foster care experiences.

Esther draws on a mix of therapeutic methods to match each person’s needs. Conversations focus on making sense of thoughts and feelings, setting manageable goals and building practical steps forward. She aims to help people develop a clearer sense of themselves and steady progress through life changes.

Approaches and online support that fit your life

Esther works integratively, blending practical, evidence-based techniques to match each person's needs. One common strand is short-term, goal-focused work that helps people identify clear steps to reduce anxiety, manage stress and improve daily coping. This kind of approach is useful for specific problems like work pressure, panic or trouble sleeping.

She also uses trauma-informed ways of working that help people make sense of painful past events and reduce their ongoing impact. That approach aims to increase safety in the moment, build skills for regulation and support a gradual return to everyday activities. Together you and the therapist will decide which methods suit you best and adapt them as goals change.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to your priorities, try small techniques in early sessions and check in about what helps. Clients are invited to give feedback so the work stays relevant and manageable.

Online therapy makes these approaches flexible and easier to fit into life. Video calls let you have a full face-to-face conversation, phone sessions work when bandwidth is an issue, and live chat or text-based messaging suit brief check-ins or people who prefer typing. These options help people keep continuity of care across location changes and busy schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Esther commonly help with?

She works with many issues including anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship problems, grief and parenting strain. Additional areas include trauma, eating and body image concerns, career stress and compassion fatigue.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

She uses an integrative approach and draws from a range of evidence-based techniques. Sessions are tailored to what feels right for the individual and progress happens at a comfortable pace.

What experience does she bring to therapy?

Esther has 14 years of experience working in private practice, a medical setting and a drug addiction service, plus volunteer work with a UK mental health charity. That variety informs her work with complex problems.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and follows their Ethical Framework. She practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with her if I'm outside the UK?

Sessions are offered to international clients and are conducted in English. This makes remote working possible across different regions.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Different formats suit different needs, from longer video sessions to shorter text check-ins.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time. Specific pricing is shown during the sign-up process.

How do I begin therapy with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire and scheduling according to the therapist's availability. The service will guide you through these steps.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesGriefParenting issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseEating disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

14+ years

Licensed

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Languages

English

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