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Gemma "Phoebe" Harris

BACP

Gemma "Phoebe" Harris , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Gemma

Gemma "Phoebe" Harris is a UK counsellor with ten years of practice. She works in a warm, respectful way and aims to help people facing anxiety, stress and life changes.

Phoebe uses a client-centred approach, which means she listens first and lets each person set the pace. Sessions focus on what matters most to the individual rather than a fixed protocol. She aims to create a calm space for people to talk through hard things and find clearer ways forward.

Her experience includes supporting people with depression, bipolar difficulties, trauma and abuse, and grief. She also works with concerns around intimacy, body image, gender dysphoria and LGBT issues. Phoebe has experience with neurodiversity topics such as autism and ADHD, and with chronic illness and caregiver stress.

She helps people manage sleep problems, anger, relationship and communication problems, and the emotional fallout of separation or loss. Phoebe also addresses more specific themes such as abandonment, guilt and shame, and alternative sexual cultures like BDSM and kink.

Sessions are offered in English and provided from the United Kingdom. Her approach is straightforward and people are encouraged to move at their own pace. If someone feels ready, they can begin by completing the site's short matching steps and then arrange sessions that suit their schedule.

Client-centred counselling and online options

Client-centred therapy focuses on the person in front of the counsellor. The counsellor listens deeply, reflects what they hear and helps people find their own answers. This approach can be useful for anxiety, depression, relationship and identity concerns because it honours each person's values and pace.

Because Phoebe works in a person-led way, figuring out the right approach is a shared process. She will talk with each client about their goals and preferences, and adapt sessions so they feel helpful and humane. The choice of techniques and session rhythm is made together as needs become clearer.

Online work is offered by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging to suit different situations. Video calls mimic face-to-face sessions when visual contact matters. Phone sessions need less bandwidth and can fit into a short break. Live chat or text sessions suit quick check-ins or people who prefer typing. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family and health needs while keeping the focus on making steady progress.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns can Phoebe help with?

She supports people struggling with stress, anxiety, depression and bipolar symptoms, plus trauma, grief and relationship difficulties. Her work also covers LGBT matters, gender dysphoria, body image and sexual culture questions.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Phoebe uses a client-centred approach that prioritises listening and following the client's pace. Sessions focus on the person's concerns and goals rather than a fixed programme.

How much experience does she have?

She has ten years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and life issues, including trauma, chronic illness and neurodiversity-related concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP, which is listed as her professional credential. She is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Therapy can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How are fees and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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