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Heather McQuay

MD, LCSW-C

Heather McQuay , MD, LCSW-C

Therapist in Maryland

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About Heather

Heather McQuay is a licensed clinician with more than 20 years in human services and over a decade practicing as a therapist. She holds an MD and is an LCSW-C in Maryland. Heather works with people facing stress, anxiety, mood concerns, trauma, grief, and parenting strains. She aims to make the first steps feel manageable and clear.

Heather takes a person-centered approach. She listens first and helps set goals that match what each person wants to change. Sessions focus on practical steps and usable skills rather than labels. Her style is collaborative and respectful, with attention to what fits each person's life.

She draws from several therapeutic methods. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thinking and try different actions. Dialectical Behavior Therapy offers skills for emotional regulation and distress tolerance. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy supports people in clarifying values and taking committed steps toward them.

Her work often addresses trauma from childhood or adulthood and long-term mood concerns such as bipolar disorder. Heather also helps with parenting stress, relationship and family issues, compassion fatigue, ADHD, and career concerns. She adapts techniques to match the presenting problem and a person’s rhythm of life.

Clients can expect straightforward conversations, skill practice, and gradual goal-setting. Heather emphasizes strengths and small changes that add up. She aims to help people build routines and strategies that feel sustainable in everyday life.

How Heather’s Approaches Fit Online Work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify their values and take small steps toward them. Online sessions can focus on values-based goals and short exercises to practice between meetings. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions and uses specific exercises to change unhelpful patterns. That method adapts well to brief homework, worksheets, and skill practice done between sessions. Dialectical Behavior Therapy teaches emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and communication skills. These skills can be introduced in-session and reinforced with text check-ins or short videos.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Heather will talk with each person about their needs, goals, and preferences and then try methods that seem likely to help. The plan can change over time so the approach stays useful and practical.

Online therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences. Video calls are useful for conversations that benefit from face-to-face interaction. Phone sessions can be easier when lower bandwidth or a hands-free option is needed. Live chat and text messaging are helpful for brief check-ins, between-session coaching, or when shorter contact works better with a busy day.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does she address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting concerns, relationship and family challenges, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and related issues listed in her specialties.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her style is person-centered and collaborative, combining skill-building with goal-setting to help people make practical changes in daily life.

How much experience does she have?

Heather has over 20 years in the human services field and more than a decade working as a licensed therapist.

Where is she located and what are her credentials?

She practices in Maryland and lists credentials as MD and LCSW-C.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

What formats are available for sessions?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for therapy.

How does payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Licensed

Maryland

Languages

English

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