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Hilary Cartmel-Batty

BACP

Hilary Cartmel-Batty , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Hilary

Hilary Cartmel-Batty is a BACP counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression and trauma. She also supports people dealing with relationship tension, parenting strain, grief, addiction and issues around intimacy and self-esteem. Hilary aims to make the first step into therapy feel manageable and respectful.

She keeps sessions straightforward and practical. Conversations focus on what is happening now and what the person wants to change. Hilary listens for patterns linked to attachment, coping styles and past hurt that affect daily life.

Her approach combines client-centred listening with attachment ideas and solution-focused work. This mix helps people name painful experiences and then try small, achievable steps that can feel less overwhelming. Trauma-focused methods are used when past experiences are getting in the way of current wellbeing.

Hilary has five years of professional experience and practises in the United Kingdom. She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, often written as BACP. That registration is shown as her credential.

Sessions are offered in English and take place online by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging. People who want to begin can follow the site steps to match with her and arrange times that fit around work or family commitments.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Attachment-based work looks at how early bonds shape current relationships and feelings. It helps when difficulties with trust, closeness or repeated relationship patterns cause distress. Client-centred therapy puts the person at the heart of the session and relies on listening, empathy and the client's pace to find clarity and direction. Solution-focused therapy concentrates on goals and practical steps, aiming to identify what is already working and build on small changes to reach clear outcomes.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work together with the person to choose which methods suit their needs, goals and preferences. That collaboration means approaches can be adjusted as progress is made or new issues arise.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual connection matters. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or for a quick check-in. Live chat and text messaging suit people who prefer short, written exchanges or want to reflect in writing between sessions. These options help fit therapy around work, family life and other commitments while keeping the focus on practical change and emotional support.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, and a wide range of relationship and parenting concerns. Additional areas include grief, addiction, self-esteem, ADHD and career difficulties.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Sessions are calm and down-to-earth, with an emphasis on listening first. Conversations then move towards practical, small steps that feel achievable.

What experience does she have?

She has five years of experience working as a counsellor and psychotherapist. That time has included supporting people with trauma, relationship issues and life changes.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and she practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time; her work is within the United Kingdom.

How are sessions delivered and what formats are available?

Sessions can be arranged as video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How does pricing and starting therapy work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and is provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to her availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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