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Holly Spire

LCSW-R

Holly Spire , LCSW-R

Therapist in New York

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About Holly

Holly Spire is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW-R) with three decades of experience supporting people through stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, and depression. She focuses on practical coping skills and gentle guidance so clients can regain steadiness and confidence. Holly emphasizes collaboration and honors each person’s perspective as the starting point for change.

Over her 30-year career she has worked with issues related to body image, eating and food-related concerns, cancer, caregiving stress, and recovery from sexual assault and domestic violence. She also addresses the effects of narcissistic abuse, post-traumatic stress, and challenges common to young adults. Her practice centers on helping people manage life changes and rebuild self-love.

In sessions Holly draws on client-centered methods and trauma-focused work to respond to what each person needs in the moment. She uses mindfulness and somatic tools to help people reconnect with their bodies and manage overwhelming emotions. Dialectical behavior therapy skills are also used to teach practical tools for stability and emotional regulation.

Holly works with people in New York and conducts therapy in English. Her approach is straightforward and compassionate, focusing on small, doable steps that fit into daily life. She aims to create a calm space where people can name what’s hard and practice new ways of coping.

If someone is ready to begin, Holly encourages taking the next step knowing that reaching out is an important act of self-care.

Approaches that translate well to online care

Holly uses client-centered methods that focus on the person's experience and priorities, helping people name what matters and set realistic goals. This approach is useful when someone needs a supportive, practical space to work through stress or life changes.

She also draws on trauma-focused work and somatic techniques that help process difficult memories and reconnect with bodily signals. In an online setting these approaches support paced processing of traumatic material and teach grounding practices people can use between sessions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Holly will collaborate with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences. Together they review what’s helping and adjust the plan as therapy progresses.

Online therapy offers practical benefits for people juggling busy lives. Video calls allow for face-to-face conversation when a deeper connection is helpful. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can fit into a work break or commute. Live chat and text messaging make brief check-ins, skill practice, and ongoing support easier to schedule. These options provide flexibility so therapy can be woven into everyday routines rather than add extra travel time.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Holly commonly address?

She helps people manage stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, depression, and coping with big life changes. Additional focuses include body image, eating-related issues, caregiver stress, cancer-related concerns, sexual assault recovery, and women's issues.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and practical. She centers the client's experience, uses mindfulness and somatic techniques, and teaches DBT-based skills for emotional regulation.

How much experience does she have?

Holly brings 30 years of professional experience supporting people with trauma, mood concerns, and life transitions.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds an LCSW-R license in New York and practices from that state.

Which languages are offered and can international clients be seen?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Therapy is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions are delivered through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Body imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesNarcissismPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyDialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

30+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

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