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Hourig Kalajian

LMFT

Hourig Kalajian , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Hourig

Hourig Kalajian, LMFT, guides people who feel overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief, or major life changes. She presents therapy in a calm, straightforward way and focuses on the whole person rather than just symptoms. Her warm manner aims to reduce worry and help clients find clearer next steps.

Hourig uses an individualized, person-centered style. Sessions look different depending on what someone needs - sometimes practical skill-building, sometimes space to process emotions, and sometimes short-term coaching to get unstuck. She draws on approaches like cognitive behavioral techniques and acceptance-based strategies to match how a person prefers to work.

Her background includes three years as a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, alongside earlier experience providing therapeutic support in school and community settings. That history informs her attention to real-life demands like parenting stress and caregiver strain. Hourig often helps people dealing with relationship concerns, career shifts, grief, fertility or pregnancy-related worries, and ADHD-related coping challenges.

In sessions she focuses on clear goals and usable tools. That can mean practicing new communication skills, testing small behavior changes, or learning ways to manage panic and anxiety when it shows up. She also addresses feelings of emptiness, isolation, and issues around commitment or control.

People who choose her often want straightforward guidance blended with empathy. She works with individuals who want to explore life purpose, improve relationships, or find more resilience amid hard changes.

Therapeutic approaches for online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them and choosing values-driven steps. It can help with anxiety, stress, and life transitions by emphasizing actions that match what matters most. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) breaks problems into thoughts, feelings and behaviors and teaches practical skills to shift unhelpful patterns. It is useful for panic, social anxiety, depression and managing ADHD-related challenges.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences and what has or hasn’t helped before, then try methods that fit the client's needs. This is a collaborative process and adjustments can be made as progress is reviewed.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation and guided exercises, phone calls can work when bandwidth is limited, live chat supports shorter check-ins, and text messaging helps with ongoing support between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule and to keep momentum through life changes.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She helps with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief, parenting and career changes. Additional focuses include ADHD, compassion fatigue, fertility and pregnancy concerns.

What is her therapeutic style?

Sessions are person-centered and practical. She blends acceptance-based methods, cognitive behavioral techniques and solution-focused tools to meet each person's needs.

What relevant experience does she bring?

She has three years as a licensed marriage and family therapist in California and prior experience providing therapy in school and community settings with children and adolescents.

Where is she licensed and based?

She holds a California LMFT credential and practices in California.

Which languages and international options are offered?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

How are therapy sessions delivered?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesDepressionCoaching

Also works with

Family conflictsGriefParenting issuesCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Caregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPregnancy and childbirthSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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