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Ingried Upingasana

BACP

Ingried Upingasana , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Ingried

Ingried Upingasana offers calm, practical support for people facing stress, anxiety and life changes. She helps clients who are struggling with low mood, relationship strain, trauma and issues around identity and self-worth. Conversations are warm and person-focused, with an emphasis on small steps that feel manageable.

She uses a mix of talking therapies and practical exercises to build resilience and hope. Sessions can include mindfulness practices, goal-setting and thinking tools to reduce unhelpful thinking patterns. Ingried also makes room to discuss faith and spirituality when that matters to a client.

Ingried has five years of clinical experience and holds BACP registration, which is shown as BACP. She trained at undergraduate and master’s level in counselling, coaching and applied positive psychology as described in her biography. This background informs a strengths-based, hopeful stance in her work.

Clients who value a gentle, collaborative approach often find the pace supportive. Ingried pays attention to attachment and relational patterns such as abandonment or avoidant behaviour. She also helps people dealing with addiction, caregiver stress, body image and other practical life pressures.

Therapy sessions are offered in English and Afrikaans and take place online by video, phone, live chat or text messaging. The focus is on helping each person find usable tools, clearer thinking and steadier coping so daily life feels less overwhelming.

Therapeutic approaches and how online sessions help

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on being heard and understood. The counsellor listens without judgement, and supports clients to find their own solutions and build self-belief. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at unhelpful thought patterns and introduces simple exercises to change thinking and behaviour, which is useful for anxiety, low mood and stress.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The counsellor will discuss goals and preferences and try methods that fit the person’s needs. That collaborative process means techniques can be adjusted as progress is made or priorities change.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat or text messaging to make therapy flexible. Video calls are close to face-to-face and useful for deeper conversation. Phone sessions need less bandwidth and can fit into a short break. Live chat or messaging can be used for quicker check-ins, written reflection or when typing helps someone express themselves. These options help people access consistent support around work, family life and other commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression and relationship difficulties. Additional areas include trauma, addiction, self-esteem, body image and career or parenting challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm and collaborative, combining client-centred listening with practical techniques from CBT and mindfulness. Sessions aim to be gentle and goal-focused.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has five years of professional experience working in counselling and coaching settings. That experience shapes a pragmatic, strengths-based approach.

What credentials and region are listed?

She is listed with BACP and is based in the United Kingdom according to the profile information provided.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and Afrikaans as stated in the profile.

What session formats are available online?

Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and is managed through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with this counsellor?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English, Afrikaans

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