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John Odutemu

HCPC

John Odutemu , HCPC

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About John

John Odutemu works with people who are coping with relationship challenges, addiction, anxiety, low self-esteem and major life changes. He aims to create a calm space where people can talk through what is worrying them. John uses straightforward language and practical steps rather than jargon. John has 12 years of professional experience and is registered with the HCPC, the Health and Care Professions Council. He draws on approaches that help people notice patterns, build new habits and connect more securely to others. Sessions are shaped around each persons needs and goals. In a typical session John listens closely, reflects what he hears and helps people try small changes between meetings. He can support those dealing with grief, trauma and abuse, mood difficulties such as depression and bipolar, and stress linked to work or caregiving. He also works with concerns around sexuality, intimacy and body image. People looking for help with ADHD, compassion fatigue, or chronic illness and pain may find his practical focus useful. He also has experience with adoption and foster care issues, attachment-related concerns and neurodiversity such as autism and Asperger syndrome. John offers sessions in English and works with clients in the United Kingdom and internationally. He encourages people to take the first step and explains the process clearly so they know what to expect.

How therapeutic approaches adapt to online sessions

John frequently uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, which helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose values-based actions even when feelings are difficult. ACT can be useful for anxiety, depression, chronic pain and coping with life changes.

He also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, a hands-on method that breaks problems into thoughts, feelings and behaviours so practical experiments can be tried between sessions. CBT is often helpful for mood, sleep and stress-related concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk through goals and preferences and suggest which methods to try first. This happens collaboratively and can be adjusted as progress is reviewed.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect. Video calls let conversations feel much like an in-person meeting. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is low or when being on camera is not wanted. Live chat and text-based messaging suit quick check-ins, shorter updates or times when typing feels easier than speaking. These options make it simpler to fit therapy around work, caregiving and busy lives while keeping a steady rhythm of support.

Frequently asked questions

What issues can John help with?

He supports people with relationship problems, trauma and abuse, grief, self-esteem, depression, stress and anxiety. He also works with addictions, intimacy concerns, eating and sleeping issues, ADHD and many other life challenges.

What is his therapeutic style?

John uses a collaborative, down-to-earth style. He listens, reflects, and helps people try practical steps between sessions.

How much experience does he have?

John has 12 years of professional experience working with a wide range of emotional and behavioural concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is registered with the HCPC, the Health and Care Professions Council, and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported and can he work internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

He works online using video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How does costing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyHypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

12+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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