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Katharine “Katy” Nicholson

LMFT

Katharine “Katy” Nicholson , LMFT

Therapist in New York

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About Katharine

Katharine “Katy” Nicholson uses attachment-focused and relationship-oriented approaches to help people find clearer ways to connect. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in New York with ten years of clinical experience. Katy listens for what feels missing in relationships and helps people name practical steps they can try right away.

Katy often combines Attachment-Based Therapy with client-centered and cognitive behavioral ideas. She pays attention to patterns that show up across family interactions and individual responses. Sessions focus on improving communication, reducing reactive moments, and building more reliable ways to meet needs.

Clients come for a range of concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges, and issues around intimacy and body image. She also supports people dealing with grief, addiction-related worries, ADHD, and compassion fatigue. Katy works with relationship strain related to divorce, blended families, adoption and foster care, and family of origin problems.

Her manner is warm and straightforward. She offers practical tools like behavioral strategies and emotion-focused exercises alongside space to talk about painful experiences. When appropriate she introduces skills from Dialectical Behavior Therapy to help manage strong emotions and from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to change unhelpful thinking.

Sessions are offered online by video, phone, live chat, or text messaging. Katy’s practice uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. To begin, someone selects the Start Therapy button, completes a short matching questionnaire, and schedules according to therapist availability.

How Katy’s approaches translate to online therapy

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early bonds shape current relationships. Online work uses conversation and guided exercises to notice patterns of closeness and distance and to try new ways of connecting. This approach is helpful for people coping with abandonment, attachment issues, and family of origin problems.

Client-Centered Therapy centers on being heard and respected. In sessions the therapist listens without judgment and follows the person’s priorities while offering gentle reflection. That style supports people facing stress, grief, or questions about identity and self-esteem.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts influence feelings and behavior. Katy uses simple CBT tools to change unhelpful thinking and to develop new habits for sleep, eating, and anxiety management.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with the individual to agree on goals and try methods that match their needs and preferences. Plans can be adjusted as progress is made or new issues appear.

Online sessions are offered by video, phone, live chat, or text messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video is useful for full conversations and emotion work. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is low or a shorter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging are helpful for brief reflections, skills practice between sessions, or when someone prefers typing to speaking. These options let people fit therapy into work, parenting, or travel schedules while still using the chosen therapeutic approaches.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Katy commonly address?

She works with relationship and family strain, trauma and abuse, parenting struggles, anxiety, depression, and issues with intimacy and body image.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Katy blends Attachment-Based Therapy, client-centered listening, and CBT techniques to focus on communication and emotional patterns in relationships.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of experience working in outpatient and community mental health settings.

What credential does she hold and where is she located?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in New York and practices from that state.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Available formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.

How are fees and payments handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule a session according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issues

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Imago Relationship TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

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