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Katie Clay - Wakefield

LCMHC

Katie Clay - Wakefield , LCMHC

Therapist in North Carolina

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About Katie

Katie Clay - Wakefield draws on movement-informed counseling and clinical mental health experience to help women navigating transitions. She focuses on practical choices and clear next steps. Her style is direct, warm, and often humorous, which helps soften hard conversations and build trust quickly.

She has 18 years of experience, with an MA in Dance/Movement Therapy and Clinical Mental Health Counseling earned in 2009. Much of her work has been in community mental health settings, where she learned to support people facing complex everyday stresses.

Katie concentrates on midlife concerns, including perimenopause, changing family roles, and career shifts. She supports people who are caring for others and who need strategies to set boundaries, protect their time, and reconnect with their own needs. She also addresses relationship worries, self-esteem, body image, and questions of life purpose.

Sessions are conversational and practical. The first meeting focuses on what led someone to seek help and which life experiences might be connected to current struggles. She uses honesty, compassion, and occasional humor to make space for both hard feelings and small wins.

Katie also works with topics that are less often discussed openly, such as attachment patterns and aspects of alternative sexual cultures like BDSM and kink. Her aim is to help people make intentional choices that reflect what they truly want, rather than what others expect of them.

Approaches that guide online sessions and goals

Katie uses movement-informed counseling alongside clinical mental health techniques to help people reconnect with what they want and make tangible changes. Movement-informed work can include attention to body sensations, posture, and gentle movement to help name feelings and shift stuck patterns; it often helps with body image, self-awareness, and emotional regulation.

Clinical mental health counseling emphasizes talk-based strategies to clarify values, set boundaries, and plan next steps. This practical approach supports people facing career shifts, caregiving stress, midlife transitions, and relationship questions by identifying doable strategies and experimenting with small changes between sessions.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, daily realities, and preferences, and then shape sessions to fit those needs. Clients and therapist collaborate to try methods that feel useful and adjust as progress is made.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which offer flexibility for different schedules and comfort levels. Video allows face-to-face conversation for deeper connection, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat and messaging suit short check-ins or times when writing feels more natural. These options help people fit therapy into busy lives and maintain continuity during transitions.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She helps with relationship stress, parenting strain, self-esteem, career questions, and coping with life changes. Additional focus areas include body image, attachment concerns, caregiver stress, and women's issues.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her approach is honest, compassionate, and down-to-earth, often using humor to ease difficult conversations. Sessions are conversational and aim to identify practical steps clients can try between meetings.

What experience does she bring to this work?

She has 18 years of experience and has worked largely in community mental health settings. Much of her most meaningful work has been supporting midlife women through transitions like perimenopause and caregiving roles.

What are her credentials and location?

She holds the credential LCMHC, which stands for Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor. She practices from North Carolina.

Which languages are supported and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

In what formats are sessions offered?

She meets with clients via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These options allow different ways to check in depending on need and schedule.

How does cost and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and is billed through a subscription model. The subscription can be canceled at any time.

What steps are needed to begin therapy?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that you can schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressForgivenessIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisSelf-loveWomen's issues

Experience

18+ years

Licensed

North Carolina

Languages

English

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