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Kelli Bouscher

LMFT

Kelli Bouscher , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Kelli

Kelli Bouscher is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. She brings a practical, down-to-earth style to sessions and focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship difficulties, trauma, and self-esteem concerns.

Her work centers on attachment and how past relationships influence present patterns. She uses client-centered methods to listen closely and help people name what matters most to them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is used to identify unhelpful thinking and try new behaviors in everyday life.

Over nine years of practice have given her experience with issues that often sit together, like codependency, family of origin problems, body image, and substance misuse. She pays attention to how abandonment, attachment wounds, or dissociation can shape emotional responses and relationship choices.

Kelli also draws on Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills when intense emotions or self-destructive patterns come up, and she applies principles from the Gottman Method to help people who want better communication and conflict habits in relationships. Sessions aim to build coping skills people can use between appointments.

Her style is collaborative and straightforward. She encourages small, concrete steps toward change and supports people as they try them out. Kelli frames clients as experts on their own lives and helps translate that knowledge into workable plans for growth.

Therapeutic approaches for online care

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how past relationships shape current patterns and helps people understand and change those patterns to feel more secure in relationships. Client-Centered Therapy centers the person's experience and priorities, with the therapist listening closely and helping the person decide next steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions and offers concrete tools to test and change unhelpful thinking and behavior.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Kelli will collaborate with each person to pick methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That collaboration may involve trying different skills from these approaches and adjusting the plan as progress is made.

Online therapy offers several practical advantages. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when tone and body language matter, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat can be useful for shorter check-ins, and text-based messaging helps keep momentum between meetings. These options give flexibility for fitting therapy into busy lives and for choosing the format that best supports ongoing practice and skill building.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?

Kelli works with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, and self-esteem issues. She also helps with related topics like codependency, body image, family of origin problems, and substance use.

What is her approach to therapy?

She blends attachment-based and client-centered work with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills. The focus is on listening, building coping skills, and changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has nine years of clinical experience working with adults on issues such as trauma, addictions, and relationship difficulties.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a LMFT licensed in California and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are offered?

Therapy is available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different schedules and preferences.

How are costs and billing handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How does someone begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteem

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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