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Kelly Smith

LCSW

Kelly Smith , LCSW

Therapist in Virginia

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About Kelly

Kelly Smith is a licensed clinical social worker with thirty years of experience helping individuals manage anxiety, depression, stress, and life transitions. Kelly focuses on issues often important to women, including body image, intimacy concerns, parenting strain, and relationship patterns. People can expect a warm, respectful presence and straightforward conversation that aims to make change practical and reachable.

Kelly uses simple, concrete steps in sessions. Conversations often include identifying unhelpful thinking, practicing new skills, and noticing patterns that keep problems going. Sessions are collaborative and paced to each person's needs so goals feel realistic.

With long experience across many settings, Kelly has worked with people facing trauma, addiction, grief, and ADHD challenges. That background includes supporting clients through relationship stress, abandonment and attachment concerns, and the strain of caregiving or aging family members.

Her work draws on client-centered methods, cognitive-behavioral tools, dialectical behavior therapy skills, mindfulness practices, and motivational interviewing. These approaches are mixed to match practical goals like improving communication, reducing intense emotion, or building healthier routines.

Sessions balance active skill work with space to talk about painful history. Kelly aims to create a calm, direct environment where people can try new ways of coping and notice small progress. The focus is on what helps in day-to-day life and on building strategies that last.

Practical approaches for online growth

Kelly blends client-centered therapy with cognitive-behavioral therapy to help people change patterns that cause distress. Client-centered work means sessions start with the person's priorities and rely on respectful, nonjudgmental listening to help clarify goals. Cognitive-behavioral work focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and trying concrete behavior changes to reduce anxiety, improve mood, and manage impulses.

She also uses dialectical behavior therapy skills for emotion regulation and relationship effectiveness when strong feelings or intense conflicts get in the way. DBT skills teach clear tools for staying calm, communicating needs, and tolerating distress without making things worse. Together these approaches give both understanding and concrete steps to try between sessions.

Finding the right mix of methods is part of the process. Kelly will work collaboratively to choose strategies that match the client's goals, pace, and preferences. That means checking in often and adjusting techniques if something does not fit.

Online sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to match different needs. Video helps when visual cues matter, phone works well when bandwidth is limited, chat or text can fit short check-ins or busy days. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent while fitting it into daily life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kelly help with?

Kelly helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, grief, ADHD, and related challenges.

How would you describe Kelly's therapeutic style?

Sessions are warm, interactive, and practical. Kelly combines listening with skill building and uses straightforward techniques to address day-to-day problems.

What is Kelly's background and experience?

Kelly has thirty years of experience as a psychotherapist and clinical supervisor and has worked with a wide range of presenting concerns across many settings.

What credentials and location apply to this clinician?

Kelly holds the LCSW credential and is licensed as an LCSW in New York and Virginia. Practice is listed as based in Virginia.

Which languages are supported and can international clients join?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats does Kelly offer online?

Therapy sessions are available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different communication preferences.

How are costs handled for sessions?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin working together?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapySystemic Therapy

Experience

30+ years

Licensed

New York, California, Virginia, Washington

Languages

English

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