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Kendra Paulsen

LMFT

Kendra Paulsen , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Kendra

Kendra Paulsen is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California. She focuses on helping women who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, career strain, depression, and major life changes. Her style is warm and respectful, and she aims to tailor sessions to each person's needs.

She draws on client-centered methods to create a conversational, nonjudgmental space. That means sessions often start where the client is - with current problems, priorities, and what feels most urgent. Kendra listens for patterns that keep showing up, such as control issues, codependency, or family of origin concerns, and helps people notice options they might not have seen.

When past trauma shows up as panic, intrusive memories, or ongoing tension, she can integrate EMDR techniques alongside narrative and mindfulness approaches. These tools are used to reduce the intensity of distressing memories and to build steady coping skills for daily life. Jungian ideas are sometimes used to explore deeper themes like life purpose, guilt, and shame.

Sessions move at a practical pace. Conversations focus on what to try this week and how to handle the next stressful moment. Kendra helps people break big problems into manageable steps and build routines that support emotional balance.

She has seven years of professional experience in clinical settings and keeps the focus on collaboration. If someone wants clear tools, steady support, and a therapist who listens closely, she offers a straightforward, person-focused approach.

Therapeutic approaches and remote care

Client-centered therapy focuses on the client's experience and priorities. Sessions are driven by what matters most to the person, with the therapist offering reflection and guidance to help clarify goals and next steps. EMDR is a method used to reduce the intensity of distressing memories and reactions; it can be helpful for people dealing with panic, traumatic memories, or ongoing stress responses. Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attentional and breathing practices that reduce rumination and improve emotional regulation, which can be useful for anxiety and depression.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss options, try methods that fit the issue, and adjust based on what helps most. This is a collaborative process where the client's goals and preferences shape which techniques are used.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction for deeper conversation and visual cues. Phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text-based messaging are useful for brief check-ins, writing through a problem, or fitting therapy into busy days. These formats make it easier to maintain consistent care around work, family, and other commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues are addressed?

Kendra helps with stress, anxiety, career strain, depression, and coping with life changes. She also focuses on compassion fatigue, codependency, control issues, family problems, guilt and shame, panic, PTSD, and women's issues.

What is the therapy style like?

She uses a client-centered style that keeps conversation practical and person-focused. Sessions often blend narrative work, mindfulness practices, Jungian exploration, and EMDR when appropriate.

How much clinical experience do they have?

She has seven years of professional experience working with people on the concerns listed above. That experience spans clinical settings in California.

What are the therapist's credentials and location?

She holds a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist credential, listed as LMFT, and practices in California.

Can I work with this therapist in another language or from another country?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

Which session formats are available?

Sessions can be conducted by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options let people pick formats that fit their schedules and comfort levels.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription model. The subscription may be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. Then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

CodependencyControl issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGuilt and shameLife purposePanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Jungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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