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Kim Selbert

LMFT

Kim Selbert , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Kim

Kim Selbert is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California. She focuses on grief, life changes, stress and anxiety, and many issues often tied to women's health. Kim brings ten years of clinical experience to sessions and aims to help people find clearer direction and relief.

She favors a Client-Centered approach and centers sessions on listening and understanding the person in front of her. Conversations are meant to feel respectful and practical, with time spent on skills that can be used outside sessions. Humor and lived experience sometimes shape how she connects and normalizes difficult emotions.

Kim's background includes a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology from Lindenwood University and a Master of Science in Occupational Therapy from the University of Southern California. She has worked across a range of care settings and has written about childbirth, bringing that perspective into work around pregnancy and parenting topics.

People often seek her help for relationship concerns, intimacy-related problems, sleeping difficulties, anger, career questions, and depression. Kim also supports those facing aging or cancer-related issues and those coping with isolation or questions of life purpose.

Her style is straightforward and warm. Sessions mix empathetic listening with education and practical tools so people can use what they learn after therapy ends. Kim helps clients set goals and build small steps toward the life they want.

Client-centered care in online sessions

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and understanding the person as an individual. The therapist creates a nonjudgmental space and helps clients name their concerns, whether they are dealing with grief, stress, or questions about life purpose. This approach is useful for emotional support and building self-awareness.

Because Kim uses a person-focused style, choosing the right approach often happens together. The therapist will talk with each client about goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful. That collaborative process helps shape session pacing and the practical tools introduced along the way.

Online sessions are offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different routines. Video lets people use visual cues for deeper conversation, while phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited or a quieter setup is available. Live chat and messaging support brief check-ins or ongoing reflection between longer sessions. These options make it easier to attend sessions around work, caregiving, or medical appointments while keeping therapy flexible and accessible.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kim commonly address?

She works with grief, stress and anxiety as well as relationship and intimacy-related issues. Other areas include parenting, sleeping problems, anger, career questions, depression, aging and cancer-related concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Kim uses a Client-Centered approach, emphasizing listening, empathy, and collaboration. Sessions combine supportive conversation with practical skills and education to help people move forward.

What kind of experience does she bring?

She has ten years of counseling experience and draws on a varied helping-profession background. Her work also reflects personal experience with several of the issues she addresses.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

Kim is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - LMFT - licensed in California. Her education includes master's degrees in Counseling Psychology and Occupational Therapy.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and schedules.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are billed through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. Then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepression

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesCancerIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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