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Kirsten Probst-Santha

LCSW

Kirsten Probst-Santha , LCSW

Therapist in North Carolina

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About Kirsten

Kirsten Probst-Santha is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on helping people facing stress, anxiety, self-esteem struggles, parenting challenges, and major life changes. She offers a calm, straightforward style that aims to make first steps feel more manageable and less overwhelming.

Kirsten uses a collaborative, client-centered approach to understand each person's priorities. Sessions often focus on practical skills such as emotional regulation and coping strategies. She also draws on approaches that target unhelpful thinking and build clearer communication habits.

Her background includes work in school, residential, and community-based settings. That experience informs how she supports people dealing with trauma, grief, relationship strain, and caregiver stress. She is familiar with concerns related to adoption and foster care, blended family issues, and fertility and parenting stress.

Kirsten holds the LCSW credential, and she is licensed in North Carolina and Illinois. In sessions she usually blends short-term solutions with skills practice and deeper emotional work when needed. People often leave with concrete tools they can use between meetings.

She accepts clients from outside the United States and offers care in English. Therapy may include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs. To begin, a short matching questionnaire helps pair people with a schedule that works for them.

Approaches that guide online work and practical care

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and responding to what matters most to the person in front of the therapist. It emphasizes empathy and helping people set their own goals, which is useful for parenting stress, self-esteem issues, and life transitions.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact. It uses simple exercises to shift unhelpful thinking and build new habits, which can help with anxiety, depression, and coping during change.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, teaches clear skills for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and improved communication. Those tools are often helpful for managing anger, intense emotions, or relationship conflicts.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That decision can change over time as progress is made and priorities shift.

Online sessions are offered by licensed professionals in several formats: video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is useful for in-depth conversations and skills practice, while phone sessions can be easier when internet bandwidth is limited. Live chat and messaging let people check in between meetings or use shorter touchpoints during a busy day. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or travel schedules.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kirsten commonly address?

She helps people with anxiety, depression, stress, self-esteem issues, parenting concerns, relationship and family problems, trauma and grief, anger, and career challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and client-centered, focusing on emotional regulation, coping skills, and practical steps that fit daily life.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has four years of experience working in school, residential, and community-based settings supporting people through crisis, trauma, and transitions.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds the LCSW credential and is licensed in North Carolina and Illinois; her professional location is listed as North Carolina.

Can sessions be conducted in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats does she offer?

Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different schedules and preferences.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the first steps to begin therapy?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesFamily problemsFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Solution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Licensed

Illinois, North Carolina

Languages

English

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