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Dr. Kristen Pavela

LCSW

Dr. Kristen Pavela , LCSW

Therapist in Wisconsin

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About Kristen

Dr. Kristen Pavela is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Doctor of Social Work and ten years of clinical experience. She practices in Wisconsin and has worked with people facing stress, anxiety, mood struggles, addiction, and trauma. Her manner is warm and interactive, and she aims to treat people with respect and compassion.

She focuses on practical conversations that help clients make changes. Sessions often center on clear goals, manageable steps, and talking through patterns that get in the way. Kristen uses straightforward tools from cognitive behavioral methods and motivational interviewing to support change.

Her background includes work with people coping with relationship strain, parenting stress, grief, and issues around intimacy and self‑esteem. She has substantial experience with addiction and domestic violence concerns, and with the emotional effects of trauma and abuse. That experience informs how she plans treatment and safety in sessions.

Kristen also pays attention to deeper life patterns rooted in attachment and past relationships. She draws on psychodynamic ideas to help people understand recurring feelings and choices. At the same time she keeps the work goal-focused and practical so clients can see progress between sessions.

Her style is collaborative: she adapts the pace, techniques, and topics to each person. People who want clear next steps alongside empathetic listening tend to fit well with her approach. If someone is ready to make changes, she offers steady support and straightforward guidance.

Approaches that guide online sessions

Client‑Centered Therapy focuses on listening and understanding a person's experience. The therapist offers empathy and supports people in finding their own solutions, which can help with self‑esteem, relationship worries, and life transitions.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. It uses practical tools to break unhelpful patterns and is useful for anxiety, depression, insomnia, and some addiction issues.

Motivational Interviewing helps people find their own reasons to change. It uses open questions and reflective listening to build motivation for moving away from addictive behaviors or toward healthier routines.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each person to choose or blend methods that match their goals and preferences. That means trying options, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan together.

Online therapy formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text‑based messaging. Video lets people use visual cues for deeper conversation. Phone sessions can fit a tighter schedule or use less bandwidth. Live chat and text messaging allow brief check‑ins or ongoing written support between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into daily life and keep momentum between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting and self‑esteem concerns, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and related challenges.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is warm and interactive, combining respectful listening with practical steps. Sessions balance goal setting and reflective conversation to help clients move forward.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has ten years of experience working as a clinical social worker and substance abuse counselor, and she holds a doctorate in social work.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with Illinois and Wisconsin LCSW credentials and practices out of Wisconsin.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Appointments can be held as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text‑based messaging.

How does cost and billing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I start a session with her?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

Wisconsin, Illinois

Languages

English

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