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Dr. Kristi Hottenstein

LPC, LPCC

Dr. Kristi Hottenstein , LPC, LPCC

Therapist in Michigan

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About Kristi

Dr. Kristi Hottenstein brings two decades of counseling experience to her work in Michigan. She earned a doctorate in higher education administration from the University of Toledo, a master’s in Counseling from the University of La Verne, and a bachelor’s in Sociology from Alma College. She holds LPC and LPCC credentials and has run a private practice, Compass Counseling & Coaching, PLLC. Her background includes board service with the Michigan Mental Health Counselors Association.

Kristi favors a flexible, person-focused style. She listens first, then tailors techniques to each person’s situation. Sessions aim to build self-awareness and practical skills people can use between meetings. She emphasizes personal responsibility while remaining supportive.

Her work covers a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, addiction, and LGBT matters. She also supports people facing parenting strain, career transitions, compassion fatigue, ADHD, and eating or sleeping problems. Kristi addresses both emotional crises and longer-term life changes.

Therapeutic approaches include Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, cognitive behavioral strategies, dialectical behavior techniques, client-centered practices, and existential perspectives. She mixes methods to fit what a person needs rather than using a single formula.

Sessions are offered in English and are delivered via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. Fees vary with location and the subscription model used by the service can be canceled at any time. To begin, a person completes a short matching questionnaire and schedules an appointment based on availability.

How her approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then take actions that fit their values. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and changing behaviors to reduce symptoms and improve functioning. It often helps with stress, sleep problems, and mood concerns. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening, empathy, and creating a respectful space where people feel heard and can clarify their own goals.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. She will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped in the past. Then she and the client decide collaboratively which methods to try and adjust them as progress is made.

Online therapy offers practical flexibility. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when someone prefers not to be on camera. Live chat and text-based messaging are useful for brief check-ins, homework support, or when a shorter touchpoint fits into a busy day. These options help people fit therapy into work, family, and life commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She works with common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, addictions, and LGBT-related matters, plus parenting strain, career changes, and compassion fatigue.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is person-focused and flexible. She listens first, then uses a mix of approaches to build self-awareness and practical coping skills.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

She has 20 years of experience in counseling and has run a private practice while serving on a state counseling board.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds LPC and LPCC credentials and practices in Michigan.

Are sessions offered in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English. She does not accept international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can take place by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How does the cost of sessions work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Licensed

Michigan, Texas, Arizona, California, New Jersey, Virginia

Languages

English

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