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Kristilee (Kristi) Cappaert

LCSW, LISW

Kristilee (Kristi) Cappaert , LCSW, LISW

Therapist in Iowa

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About Kristilee

Kristilee (Kristi) Cappaert is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship and family struggles. She also supports people coping with grief, depression, addictions, intimacy concerns, parenting strain, anger, and self-esteem issues. Kristi works with concerns tied to career changes, compassion fatigue, and other life transitions. She practices in Iowa and holds credentials as LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) and LISW (Licensed Independent Social Worker).

Kristi keeps sessions straightforward and goal-focused. She uses clear questions and reflective listening to help people spot unhelpful thoughts and habits. Together clients and Kristi set small, practical steps to try between sessions. Her style blends warmth with structure so people leave with concrete tools.

She draws on approaches such as client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing. Those methods are used to address things like mood, anxiety, relationship conflict, and coping skills. Kristi explains techniques in everyday language and practices them in session so clients can use them at home.

Her background includes five years of counseling experience in both Illinois and Iowa. That experience covers a wide range of life challenges, including blended family issues, caregiver stress, codependency, communication difficulties, and end-of-life concerns. Kristi aims to meet people where they are and help them move toward clearer choices.

Clients who choose to work with her can expect collaborative planning, practical homework, and a focus on what matters most to each person. She emphasizes steady progress and helps people track small changes over time.

How Kristi's approaches work in online therapy

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening without judgment and helping people voice what matters most. It is useful for exploring relationships, parenting concerns, and the values behind tough choices. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts and behaviors affect mood and stress. CBT breaks problems into steps and offers practical exercises to change thinking patterns and daily habits. Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) teaches skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and clear communication when strong feelings arise.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Kristi will collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their goals, preferences, and day-to-day needs. That decision is revisited as progress is made so techniques can be adjusted over time.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy flexible. Video calls let people use visual cues and do skills practice together. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when someone needs a quick check-in. Live chat and text messaging support brief check-ins, skills coaching, and ongoing encouragement between longer sessions. These options help therapy fit into busy schedules and different lifestyles.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kristi commonly address?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, grief, addictions, intimacy issues, parenting strain, anger, self-esteem, career changes, and compassion fatigue.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is collaborative and practical, combining warm listening with structured techniques and short, usable steps to practice between sessions.

What is her clinical background?

Kristi has five years of counseling experience working in Illinois and Iowa across a range of concerns and settings.

What credentials and location should I know about?

She holds LCSW (Licensed Clinical Social Worker) and LISW (Licensed Independent Social Worker) credentials and practices in Iowa.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats does she use?

Kristi meets via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How does billing and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Licensed

Illinois, Iowa, New Jersey

Languages

English

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