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Lara Shemali

LMHC

Lara Shemali , LMHC

Therapist in Washington

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About Lara

Lara Shemali is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with 29 years of experience helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship struggles. She focuses on practical tools that support recovery from addiction, build confidence, and reduce everyday overwhelm. Lara works with people dealing with trauma and abuse and addresses a range of personal and professional concerns.

She aims to make sessions straightforward and down-to-earth. Lara listens first and helps people name what matters most to them. She then offers concrete skills for coping with anxiety, improving communication, and managing mood shifts.

Her background includes long-term clinical practice in Washington and many years supporting people through substance use challenges and recovery. That experience informs how she helps clients set realistic goals and track progress over time.

Lara uses a mix of approaches to match each person’s needs. She draws on acceptance and commitment ideas to clarify values, cognitive behavioral techniques to change unhelpful thoughts, and emotionally-focused methods to improve connection in relationships.

She is mindful of busy schedules and offers weekday hours plus occasional evenings and weekends when possible. Lara encourages people to take the first step and says starting therapy is a sign of courage and commitment to change.

Therapeutic approaches for online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages people to clarify what matters to them and take small steps toward those values even with difficult thoughts or feelings. It can help with anxiety, low motivation, and decision-making. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thinking patterns and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like worry and low mood. That approach is useful for anxiety, depression, and stress management. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people identify and express important emotions to improve connections in relationships and reduce recurring conflicts.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most useful. That collaborative process makes it easier to try one method and adjust over time if needed.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs. Video sessions allow fuller face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can work when bandwidth is limited, and text or chat formats support brief check-ins or ongoing written reflection. These options make it easier to fit therapy around work, family, and travel while keeping continuity of care.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

Lara supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, and issues around self-esteem. She also works with people addressing addiction and recovery.

What is her therapy style like?

She keeps sessions practical and conversational, focusing on skills that can be used between meetings. The approach centers on listening, clarifying goals, and trying tools that fit each person's life.

How much experience does she have?

She has 29 years of professional experience working in mental health practice in Washington. That background includes work with substance use, mood concerns, and relationship challenges.

What credential does she hold and where is she located?

She holds the LMHC credential and is licensed in Washington. Her practice is based in that state.

What languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English. She also welcomes people from other countries and accepts international clients.

Which session formats are available?

Sessions can be conducted by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Different formats allow for shorter check-ins or fuller video sessions as needed.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist scheduling. Sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability. That process pairs your needs with a good match and lets you pick session times.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential Therapy

Experience

29+ years

Licensed

Washington

Languages

English

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