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Lindsay DeMarlie

LCSW, LISW

Lindsay DeMarlie , LCSW, LISW

Therapist in Iowa

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About Lindsay

Lindsay DeMarlie offers calm, practical support for people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, and issues tied to identity and relationships. She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker - LCSW - and a Licensed Independent Social Worker - LISW, and she practices in Iowa. Lindsay writes in a straightforward way and focuses on what each person needs in the moment.

She listens first and helps people set clear, realistic goals. Sessions are collaborative and grounded in everyday steps that can fit into a busy life. Lindsay draws on tools from cognitive behavioral approaches, acceptance and commitment work, dialectical behavior ideas, and mindfulness to help people manage strong emotions and change patterns that get in the way.

Many people come with trauma histories, including childhood abuse, sexual assault, or domestic violence, and Lindsay has years of experience addressing those experiences in therapy. She also supports people dealing with addiction, mood disorders such as bipolar, and struggles with self-esteem or body image. She helps parents and caregivers handle stress and ongoing care demands.

Her style is warm and nonjudgmental. Clients often work on skills for emotion regulation, clearer communication, and healthier boundaries. Sessions can include short experiments, thought work, and mindfulness practices to reduce reactivity and increase choice.

Lindsay has worked in community mental health for a decade. She combines practical strategies with attention to each person’s story. People who want direct, compassionate help to manage symptoms and build daily routines may find her approach useful.

How evidence-based methods work in online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then take steps that fit their values. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, and struggles with motivation. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thought patterns and testing them with real-life experiments to reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning. It often helps with worry, low mood, and behavior change. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers skills for managing intense emotions, improving distress tolerance, and strengthening communication when relationships are strained.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped in the past. Together they will try strategies and adjust the plan so it fits the client’s life and needs.

Online therapy with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging makes it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule. Video allows for face-to-face conversation and skill practice. Phone sessions are helpful when bandwidth is limited or a simpler check-in is needed. Text and chat work well for short reflections, quick coping reminders, or when messaging fits better into a day. These options increase flexibility and make it practical to keep therapy consistent over time.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Lindsay help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and communication problems, self-esteem and body image concerns, ADHD, bipolar, and parenting- and caregiver-related stress.

What is her approach to therapy like?

Her approach is client-centered and nonjudgmental. She uses cognitive behavioral techniques, acceptance and commitment ideas, dialectical behavior strategies, and mindfulness to help people manage emotions and change unhelpful patterns.

How much experience does she have?

She has 10 years of clinical experience, including work in community mental health settings that involved trauma and mood disorders.

What credentials and location should I know about?

She holds LCSW and LISW credentials and practices in Iowa with licensure noted as IL LCSW and IA LISW in her background.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English, and Lindsay accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can be held via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different schedules and needs.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementBipolar disorderCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

10+ years

Licensed

Illinois, Iowa

Languages

English

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