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Mary Ann Poynter

LMHC, LPC

Mary Ann Poynter , LMHC, LPC

Therapist in Illinois

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About Mary

Mary Ann Poynter is a licensed mental health counselor with two decades of experience helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and major life changes. She brings a calm, practical style and focuses on building strengths that support everyday coping. Mary Ann holds LMHC and LPC credentials and practices from Illinois.

Her work emphasizes clear steps people can use outside sessions. She helps clients notice patterns that keep them stuck and practices new ways of responding. Conversations are straightforward and paced to each person’s needs.

Mary Ann also supports people dealing with relationship struggles, grief, and issues around self-esteem and motivation. She has worked with adults and seniors and has experience related to adoption and foster care, caregiving strain, and aging concerns. This background informs how she shapes goals and homework between sessions.

She pays attention to attachment, communication, and control issues when those come up. Common topics include abandonment concerns, body image, commitment worries, and co-occurring problems like depression with anxiety. Sessions aim to make problems feel more manageable over time.

Therapy sessions use practical skills, reflective conversation, and goal-focused planning. Mary Ann encourages clients to try small changes and review what helps. Her approach is collaborative and grounded in techniques that have been shown to help people cope and change.

To begin, she asks people to describe their main concern and what they hope to change. From there she works with each person to set clear, realistic steps forward.

Evidence-Based Approaches for Online Work

Mary Ann uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on skills people can use right away. One common approach emphasizes teaching practical coping skills for anxiety and stress - identifying triggers, learning breathing and grounding techniques, and practicing simple behavioral changes to reduce worry. This approach helps with day-to-day symptoms and momentary distress.

Another approach she draws on focuses on mood and depression by breaking problems into smaller parts. That method helps people notice unhelpful thought patterns, test those thoughts, and try different behaviors to lift motivation and mood. It is useful for depression, low energy, and getting unstuck from routines that feel limiting.

Finding the right approach is part of the process and is decided together. She works collaboratively to match techniques to a person’s goals, needs, and preferences and adjusts over time based on what helps most.

Online sessions are offered by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit busy lives. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when more interaction is helpful. Phone sessions use less bandwidth and can fit a break at work. Live chat and text messaging are useful for short check-ins, quick skills coaching, or when writing feels easier than talking. These options make it easier to get consistent support around everyday schedules and changing needs.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

She helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and coping with life changes. Other focus areas include relationship problems, abandonment, body image, caregiver stress, and attachment issues.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and collaborative with clear steps to try between sessions. Conversations focus on skills and small changes that can reduce distress in daily life.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of professional experience working in mental health settings. That experience includes work with adults and seniors on a range of mood and relationship concerns.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds LMHC and LPC credentials and practices from Illinois. Those credentials are listed as LMHC and LPC.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

In what formats are sessions offered?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging as session formats. These options let people choose the style that fits their schedule and comfort.

How does cost and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What is the first step to begin therapy?

Start by clicking the Start Therapy button and completing a short matching questionnaire. After that you can schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

20+ years

Licensed

Illinois, Indiana, South Carolina

Languages

English

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