LMFT
Melissa Fogle , LMFT
Therapist in California
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About Melissa
Melissa uses practical tools and steady guidance to help people recognize patterns that keep them stuck. She blends skill-based strategies with deeper trauma work so clients can reduce distress and feel more grounded day to day. Sessions typically involve learning coping skills, trying new ways to handle strong emotions, and talking through painful memories when the timing feels right.
Her approach is collaborative. Melissa works with each person to set clear, manageable goals and to adapt techniques to what fits their life. She pays special attention to caregiver stress and communication problems, helping clients find ways to balance responsibilities and speak up more effectively.
Melissa also addresses issues like control struggles, guilt and shame, and questions of life purpose and self-love. She offers practical steps for forgiveness and rebuilding self-worth over time. The aim is steady progress rather than quick fixes.
People who choose Melissa can expect calm, direct guidance and an emphasis on skill-building. She helps clients take small, sustainable steps toward feeling more capable and connected in their everyday lives.
Using DBT and EMDR in online care
Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, teaches practical skills to manage intense emotions and improve relationships. It focuses on strategies like mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and effective communication to reduce reactivity and improve daily functioning.Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR, helps people process traumatic memories that continue to cause distress. EMDR sessions involve guided attention while recalling a memory so the emotional intensity can lessen and people can build healthier perspectives about what happened.
Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Melissa will talk with each person about their symptoms, goals, and comfort level, and then suggest whether DBT skills work, EMDR, or a combination would be most helpful. She adjusts plans as progress is made and as needs change.
Online sessions offer practical flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when visual cues matter. Phone sessions can be a good option when bandwidth is limited or when a shorter check-in fits a busy day. Live chat and text-based messaging make it possible to share updates and get support between scheduled visits. These options help people fit therapy into work, caregiving, and other responsibilities.
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does Melissa commonly address?
She focuses on stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, self-esteem, and coping with life changes. Additional areas include caregiver stress, communication problems, control issues, guilt and shame, life purpose, self-love, and Women's issues.
What is her general therapeutic style?
Her style is collaborative and practical, combining skill teaching with trauma-focused work. Sessions emphasize learning coping strategies and applying them to daily life.
How long has she been practicing?
She has 21 years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional concerns and life transitions.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in California.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Therapy can be done via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How is pricing structured?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin the process?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.
Areas of expertise
Additional focus areas
Therapeutic approaches
Experience
21+ years
Licensed
California
Languages
English
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