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Michelle (Sheli) Miller

LCSW

Michelle (Sheli) Miller , LCSW

Therapist in California

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About Michelle

Michelle (Sheli) Miller is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in California. She draws on 18 years of practice to help people with stress, anxiety, grief, self-esteem, career questions, and life transitions. She often works with concerns around relationships, sexual and intimacy issues, parenting, addiction, and ADHD. She supports people who identify as LGBT and those facing compassion fatigue or caregiver strain.

Sheli’s work grew from her own life experiences and from years of professional practice. She favors straightforward conversation and active listening. Sessions focus on practical tools and small, manageable steps people can use between meetings.

Her clinical approach blends client-centered care with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy, plus mindfulness and motivational interviewing when helpful. These methods are used to address mood problems, trauma, coping skills, and communication patterns.

Over her career Sheli has practiced in domestic violence centers, hospitals, community agencies, youth organizations, and private practice. That background shaped her ability to adapt interventions to everyday life and varied cultural perspectives.

In sessions she helps people sort what comes from past experience and what can be built now. The focus is on clear goals, actionable strategies, and rebuilding routines like sleep and self-care. Sheli aims to help clients gain steadier coping, clearer decision-making, and stronger relationships.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on the person’s own goals and experience. In practice this means the therapist listens closely, reflects what she hears, and works from the client's priorities to set goals and steps that feel relevant and doable. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and teaches specific skills to change unhelpful patterns; it is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep troubles, and coping with life changes.

Finding the right approach is a shared process. The therapist will discuss what feels most helpful and adjust methods based on the client's needs, goals, and preferences. Sessions are collaborative and practical, with homework or exercises when those fit the plan.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video is good for face-to-face conversation and skill practice, phone works well when bandwidth is limited, live chat can support shorter check-ins, and text messaging is useful for brief coaching or ongoing prompts. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, care duties, or busy days while keeping treatment consistent and goal-focused.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, career concerns, addiction, ADHD, and related challenges.

What is her general therapy style?

She uses a client-centered approach that emphasizes listening and collaboration, combined with practical techniques from CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 18 years of experience working in settings such as domestic violence centers, hospitals, community agencies, youth organizations, and private practice.

What are her credentials and where is she located?

She holds a Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential (LCSW) and practices in California.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can be conducted by video call, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging.

How is cost handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How does someone begin working with her?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesDepressionCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)EmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

18+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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