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Monique Paulus

LCSW

Monique Paulus , LCSW

Therapist in Idaho

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About Monique

Monique Paulus is a licensed clinical social worker with 13 years of experience. She practices in Idaho and helps people facing anxiety, depression, trauma, and addiction. Her style is straightforward and focused on practical steps people can use right away.

Monique often supports people during major life changes. She helps with career stress, grief, relationship strains, and issues tied to identity and intimacy. She also addresses concerns like ADHD, compassion fatigue, and challenges linked to adoption or foster care.

Her approach mixes clear problem-solving with attention to past wounds. Sessions include goal setting, skill practice, and talking through triggers from earlier trauma. She uses methods that help people change unhelpful thoughts and find motivation to make different choices.

Monique has worked with veterans and first responders and is familiar with high-stress jobs. She also supports those navigating nontraditional sexual cultures and people coping with blended family dynamics. Her focus is on meeting each person where they are and moving at a pace that feels manageable.

She holds the LCSW credential and is licensed in Arizona and Montana as well as practicing in Idaho. Sessions are offered in English and delivered through video calls, phone, live chat, or text messaging. To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule a session according to availability.

How therapeutic approaches work online

Monique uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice and change thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going. CBT is practical and works well for anxiety, depression, and stress by teaching skills you can use between sessions.

She also uses Motivational Interviewing to help people find their own reasons for change. This approach is useful for addictions, ambivalence about change, and building the motivation to try new behaviors.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will discuss options, try techniques, and adjust based on each person's goals and how they respond. This is a collaborative process where client preferences guide the plan.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to match different needs. Video is useful for in-depth conversation and visual cues. Phone can be a good choice when bandwidth is limited or a shorter check-in is needed. Chat and text let people check in more flexibly throughout the week. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives and keep progress moving forward.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Monique commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strain, and many related concerns such as ADHD and compassion fatigue.

What is Monique's therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and practical, combining problem-solving with trauma-informed conversation and motivational techniques to help people set and reach goals.

How much clinical experience does she bring?

Monique has 13 years of clinical experience supporting people through emotional challenges and life transitions, including work with veterans and first responders.

What credentials and location should I know about?

She holds the LCSW credential and is licensed in Arizona and Montana while practicing in Idaho.

Are sessions available in other languages or internationally?

Sessions are offered in English. She is not accepting international clients at this time.

Which session formats are offered?

Therapy is available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How are costs and billing handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

What is the process to begin therapy?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAntisocial personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Motivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Licensed

Montana, Arizona, Idaho

Languages

English

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