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Nicole Scanlon-Lodato

LCSW

Nicole Scanlon-Lodato , LCSW

Therapist in California

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About Nicole

Nicole Scanlon-Lodato is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) practicing in California with 20 years of experience. She focuses on helping people who feel overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, low mood, or the aftereffects of trauma and abuse. She also supports individuals facing big life changes and struggles with self-esteem and motivation.

She meets each person with respect, sensitivity, and compassion. Conversations and plans are tailored to what each person needs. Nicole emphasizes practical steps people can use between sessions to feel steadier and more in control.

Her work often centers on strengthening how people relate to themselves and others. That can include addressing attachment concerns, social anxiety, or challenges that arise during divorce and separation. She also helps clients clarify life purpose and priorities when transitions feel unclear.

Sessions focus on clear goals and small, manageable changes. Nicole aims to create an atmosphere where people can speak honestly without judgment and try out new ways of thinking and behaving. Progress is built over time, one step at a time.

People who reach out are typically looking for a compassionate listener who will also suggest concrete strategies. Nicole supports women’s issues among her areas of focus and works to empower people as they move toward more satisfying lives.

She offers a straightforward, collaborative approach that balances emotional understanding with practical problem solving.

How evidence-based approaches work online

Many clinicians use evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on practical skills and emotional processing. One common approach helps people learn skills for managing anxiety and stress, such as breathing, grounding, and breaking problems into smaller steps; this can be useful for panic, worry, and everyday overwhelm. Another approach concentrates on processing trauma and abuse by helping people tell their story at a comfortable pace and build coping strategies for difficult memories; this supports recovery and reduces distress related to past events.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with the client about current concerns, goals, and what feels most helpful. Together they try strategies, review results, and adjust the plan so it fits the client's needs and preferences.

Online therapy offers practical benefits for busy lives. Video calls let people have near face-to-face conversations from different locations. Phone sessions can work when video is not convenient or bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text-based messaging make it easy to check in between sessions or fit short check-ins into a break at work. These options increase flexibility and make regular care easier to maintain.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Nicole commonly help with?

She helps people manage stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, and coping with life changes. She also addresses attachment issues, social anxiety, divorce and separation, life purpose, and women's issues.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her approach is compassionate and practical. Conversations are tailored to each person's needs and include strategies to use between sessions.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 20 years of professional work experience as a clinician in California.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in California and practices there.

Which languages are supported and can international clients be seen?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesDivorce and separationLife purposeSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Experience

20+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English

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