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Paula Clements

BACP, NCPS

Paula Clements , BACP, NCPS

Therapist in New York

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About Paula

Paula Clements is a counsellor who helps people manage stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and a wide range of life changes. She also supports people facing trauma and abuse, addiction, sleep or eating concerns, and identity questions including LGBT issues. Paula works with clients who are navigating career pressures, parenting strain, or chronic conditions such as bipolar disorder and ADHD.

Paula draws on straightforward, person-focused methods that aim to build on what already works for each person. She treats people as the experts in their own lives and encourages practical steps alongside reflective conversation. Sessions are simple and conversational, with time to set goals and try out new ways of coping between meetings.

Her practice blends Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-informed work and client-centred listening, with elements of psychodynamic thinking. That mix is used to look at patterns, emotions, and the here-and-now choices people can make. Paula explains approaches in plain language so clients can decide what feels right.

Paula holds BACP and NCPS credentials and brings four years of professional experience. She is based in New York and works in English. Her background includes supporting people with abandonment and attachment concerns, adoption and foster care issues, ageing questions, caregiver stress, and body image challenges.

Therapy sessions are offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text messaging. The service uses a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time, and session cost varies with location and availability. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Approaches that suit online counselling

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then choose actions that align with their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, low mood and motivation issues. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at early relationship patterns and how they affect current connections and emotional responses; it can help with abandonment, attachment concerns and relationship difficulties. Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening without judgement, helping people explore their own goals and find their own solutions through a supportive therapeutic relationship.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Paula will talk with each client about what they want from therapy and try methods that match their needs and preferences. That collaborative process means the approach can be adjusted as understanding grows and goals change.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation, phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited, live chat suits shorter check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflection between meetings. These options help people fit therapy around work, family life and other commitments while keeping the focus on practical change and emotional understanding.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns can Paula help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, low self-esteem and depression. Additional areas include addictions, sleep and eating issues, parenting strain, career pressures and ADHD.

How does she approach therapy?

Paula uses a mix of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, attachment-informed work, client-centred listening and psychodynamic ideas. Sessions are conversational and focused on practical steps alongside reflection.

What is her professional background?

She has four years of professional experience and describes people as the experts in their own stories. Her work includes helping with abandonment, adoption and foster care concerns, caregiver stress and body image issues.

Where is Paula based and what credentials does she hold?

She is based in New York and holds BACP and NCPS credentials as supplied in her profile.

Which languages and regions are supported?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Sessions use a subscription model which can be cancelled at any time. Cost varies with location and therapist availability.

How do I begin working with Paula?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a brief matching questionnaire and then scheduling sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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