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Phyllis Smith

LMFT

Phyllis Smith , LMFT

Therapist in North Carolina

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About Phyllis

Phyllis Smith is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in North Carolina. She draws on a collaborative, strengths-focused style to help people manage stress, relationship struggles, parenting challenges, anxiety, depression, and other life changes.

She starts by listening to what matters most. Sessions focus on clear goals and practical steps. Clients can expect a calm, straightforward space to talk through problems and try new ways of coping.

Phyllis uses a mix of approaches to match each person's needs. That can mean exploring patterns in relationships, practicing new communication skills, or using mindfulness and thought-focused tools to reduce intense emotions. She also works with issues such as grief, addiction concerns, intimacy difficulties, and coping with ADHD or bipolar symptoms.

Her work pays attention to family and relationship dynamics while also supporting individual growth. She helps people address attachment and abandonment worries, blended family tensions, body image and self-esteem, caregiving stress, and career or life transitions.

With five years of clinical experience, Phyllis aims to build resilience and restore hope. She encourages small, doable changes that add up over time. People who want a direct, empathetic approach that connects goals to actions often find her style practical and relatable.

Online approaches for relationship and life challenges

Phyllis often uses Client-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in online work. Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening, understanding your goals, and supporting your own growth. It helps when someone needs a nonjudgmental space to sort feelings and decide on next steps. CBT looks at thoughts and behaviors and teaches practical skills to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and change unhelpful patterns.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. She will discuss goals, try methods that fit your needs, and adjust the plan as progress is made. That collaborative process helps find what actually works for each person rather than following a single method from the start.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation for skill practice and feedback. Phone sessions can be easier when video is not possible or bandwidth is limited. Live chat and text messaging work well for shorter check-ins, homework support, or when a written conversation helps you reflect. These options make it easier to fit therapy into work, caregiving, or busy schedules while still working toward your goals.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Phyllis commonly help with?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship and family stresses, parenting strain, depression, addictions, trauma, grief, intimacy concerns, anger, self-esteem, career changes, bipolar issues, and coping with life changes including ADHD challenges.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is collaborative and strengths-based. She listens, helps set clear goals, and uses practical steps like communication practice and thought-focused exercises.

What kind of experience does she have?

Phyllis has five years of clinical experience working with diverse clients on individual and relationship issues.

Where is she licensed and based?

She holds an LMFT credential and is licensed as an NC LMFT in North Carolina.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; she works with people based where licensing and local regulations allow.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How do fees and getting started work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Licensed

North Carolina

Languages

English

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