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Selena Zafar

BACP

Selena Zafar , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Selena

Selena Zafar is a counsellor who focuses on women's issues alongside a broad range of personal concerns. She offers a calm, non-judgemental space where people can talk about stress, anxiety, grief, identity and relationship worries. Selena aims to help people set goals and move at a pace that feels manageable for them.

She uses person-centred principles rooted in the work of Carl Rogers. That means sessions concentrate on listening closely, reflecting what matters to the client, and supporting people to find their own solutions. Conversations are led by the client rather than the counsellor, with empathic responses and respect for each person's experiences.

Selena trained to become a counsellor after experiencing therapy herself, and she holds a Master of Science degree. She has three years of professional experience and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.

Her background in a biracial, multi-faith family shapes how she understands identity, culture and belonging. She also works with issues such as bereavement and sports-related pressures, and with concerns around body image, addiction, parenting and career stress.

Sessions can address both immediate coping needs and longer term personal growth. Selena aims to create a steady, respectful environment so people can explore feelings and make practical changes where they wish.

Person-centred care delivered online

Selena uses person-centred principles in her online work. This approach focuses on listening and empathy, allowing each person to lead the conversation and set the pace. It can help with anxiety, grief, identity concerns, relationship stress and challenges like low self-esteem.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Selena discusses your goals and preferences and together you decide whether person-centred sessions or a different way of working will best support your needs. She encourages regular check-ins so the plan can change as you progress.

Online therapy offers a range of practical options including video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging. Video suits in-depth conversation and non-verbal cues, phone calls need less bandwidth and can be easier when a camera is not wanted, chat can work for shorter check-ins, and messaging supports ongoing reflection between sessions. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, study and family life while keeping continuity of care with a registered professional.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be discussed in sessions?

Clients bring many issues such as stress, anxiety, grief, self-esteem, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, eating and addiction problems, parenting and career pressures, and identity or LGBT matters.

What is Selena's therapeutic style like?

She follows a person-centred way of working that emphasises listening, empathy and helping people find their own answers at their own pace.

How much experience does she have?

She has three years of experience practising as a counsellor and draws on her personal experience of therapy as part of her approach.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds a Master of Science degree and is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Her practice is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international arrangements are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

Sessions can be held by video call, by phone, via live chat or through text-based messaging depending on client preference.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefSelf esteem

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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