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Shacoya Graham

LMFT

Shacoya Graham , LMFT

Therapist in North Carolina

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About Shacoya

Shacoya Graham is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people facing addictions, relationship struggles, family conflict, trauma and abuse, and bipolar concerns. She works with individuals who want practical support and clear steps to feel steadier in their lives. Shacoya uses calm, direct conversation to help people clarify goals and try new ways of coping.

She centers conversations on respect, sensitivity, and compassion. Sessions focus on what feels most urgent to the person in front of her, and plans are shaped around real-life needs. That might look like mapping patterns in relationships, learning breathing and thought skills, or planning concrete steps to manage impulses.

Her approach draws from attachment-based methods, client-centered listening, cognitive behavioral strategies, and emotionally-focused work. Those methods are used to examine relationship patterns, shift unhelpful thoughts, and strengthen emotional connection. Shacoya explains interventions plainly and checks in often to make sure they fit the person she is working with.

Shacoya holds an LMFT credential and practices in North Carolina. She has five years of professional experience supporting people through change. She tailors sessions to each person's background, culture, and goals while keeping language straightforward and practical.

People who choose her often want clear steps, steady support, and a therapist who listens without judgment. She encourages veterans of hard decisions and those just starting to reach out to try a collaborative approach to healing.

Therapeutic approaches in online care

Attachment-based work focuses on how early bonds and current relationships shape feelings and reactions. Online sessions can use this approach to map relationship patterns and practice new ways of relating with others. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, helps identify unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and replace them with more helpful options. It is useful for mood concerns, anxiety, and managing impulses related to addiction.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapy process. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t worked in the past. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust them over time based on what helps most.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and visual cues, while phone sessions use less bandwidth and can fit a break at work. Live chat and texting work well for shorter check-ins, written reflections, or when someone prefers typing over talking. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life and to keep steady contact between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist support?

She supports people dealing with addictions, relationship and family conflict, trauma and abuse, and bipolar-related concerns. Additional focuses include attachment issues, codependency, communication problems, infertility-related stress, and multicultural concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is direct, respectful, and compassionate. She tailors conversation and plans to each person's needs and prefers clear, practical steps over abstract talk.

What kind of experience does she have?

She has five years of professional experience providing therapy. That experience includes work with people facing addiction, trauma, and relationship challenges.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds an LMFT credential and is licensed as an NC LMFT in North Carolina.

Which languages and international options are available?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are offered?

Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options allow for different lengths and styles of contact depending on the person's needs.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with the client's location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How does someone get started?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing the short matching questionnaire. Then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseBipolar disorder

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesBlended family issuesCodependencyCommunication problemsDependent personalityDrug and alcohol addictionFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

Experience

5+ years

Licensed

North Carolina

Languages

English

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