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Dr. Sharolyn Wallace

LCSW

Dr. Sharolyn Wallace , LCSW

Therapist in Oklahoma

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About Sharolyn

Dr. Sharolyn Wallace is a licensed clinical social worker practicing in Oklahoma. She helps people facing family conflict, trauma and abuse, parenting stress, low self-esteem, and major life transitions. Her approach is intended to be direct and supportive so people feel seen and heard from the first visit.

She draws on 31 years of professional experience to guide conversations and plan practical steps forward. Sessions focus on clear goals and small changes that can lessen daily strain. She talks through communication strategies, ways to manage guilt and shame, and methods for coping after loss or separation.

Dr. Wallace offers straightforward support for attachment and abandonment concerns, adoption and foster care questions, blended family strain, and caregiver stress. She also addresses control and commitment issues, problems coming from a family of origin, and recovery after disaster for first responders and others.

Her style is open and nonjudgmental. She encourages people to share thoughts and feelings at a pace that feels manageable. Together they clarify what matters most and plan steps that fit each person's life.

People who choose to work with her can expect regular check-ins on progress and practical tools to try between sessions. The focus is on building coping skills, improving communication, and restoring a sense of confidence and direction.

Approaches and online care that fit your life

Dr. Wallace uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques focused on practical change. One common approach is focused problem-solving that breaks larger family or parenting issues into small, testable steps. This helps people try new communication habits and track what improves day to day.

She also draws on trauma-informed strategies that help people process distressing events at a manageable pace. These methods aim to reduce overwhelming reactions and build coping skills for reminders or triggers. For issues like attachment, abandonment, or caregiver stress she emphasizes skills that strengthen relationships and self-soothing techniques.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to identify goals, try methods that match those goals, and adjust as progress is tracked. Clients help shape what is tried and when to change direction.

Online sessions offer practical benefits. Video calls let people maintain face-to-face connection when talking through sensitive family topics. Phone sessions can be easier when bandwidth is limited or sending a quick check-in is needed. Live chat and text-based messaging provide brief, on-the-go support between sessions and can fit into a work break or hectic day. These options aim to make consistent care more flexible and easier to schedule.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Dr. Wallace address?

She helps people with family problems, trauma and abuse, parenting issues, self-esteem, and coping with life changes. Additional focuses include abandonment, adoption and foster care, attachment issues, and caregiver stress.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is open and nonjudgmental with an emphasis on practical steps. Sessions aim to set clear goals and try changes that fit daily life.

What background does she bring to sessions?

She brings 31 years of professional experience in social work and counseling settings. That experience informs how she hears problems and suggests realistic strategies.

Where is Dr. Wallace licensed and practicing?

She is an LCSW licensed in Oklahoma and practices with that credential in the state.

Are sessions available in other languages?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are offered?

She meets by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and schedules.

How is cost handled for appointments?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityMidlife crisisMood disordersPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Experience

31+ years

Licensed

Oklahoma

Languages

English

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