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Dr. Shelia  Lumar

LPC

Dr. Shelia Lumar , LPC

Therapist in Texas

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About Shelia

Dr. Shelia Lumar is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Texas with 20 years of experience. She uses her long clinical background to guide people through stressful times and major life changes. She focuses on practical, straightforward support so clients can take one step at a time toward feeling better.

She helps people manage anxiety, stress, depression, and the effects of trauma and abuse. Relationship and intimacy concerns are also common topics in her work. She also supports people dealing with addiction, grief, parenting strain, and career questions.

Her approach starts from the belief that each person knows their own life best. Sessions are collaborative and built around the client’s goals. Sheila listens for strengths and uses them to shape concrete steps forward.

She draws on several therapeutic methods depending on what a person needs. That might mean focusing on emotions in the moment, working to change unhelpful thinking and behavior, or using motivational techniques to support difficult changes. The goal is useful skills and clearer understanding, not jargon.

People who prefer calm, direct guidance tend to do well with her. She works with adults in English and offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. To begin, a person completes a short matching questionnaire and schedules a session based on therapist availability.

Therapeutic approaches suited to online work

Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening and responding to what matters most to the person. In practice this means sessions focus on the client's priorities, building on existing strengths to set realistic goals and next steps. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect and teaches skills to change patterns that cause distress; it is often useful for anxiety, depression, and stress. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) concentrates on identifying and working with strong emotions that shape relationships and intimacy concerns and can help people better understand emotional responses.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process. Dr. Lumar works collaboratively with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That might mean combining emotion-focused work with CBT skill practice or using motivational strategies for behavior change. She explains options and adjusts plans as progress is made.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video allows face-to-face interaction for deeper emotional work, phone calls can be easier when bandwidth or camera use is difficult, live chat and messaging suit brief check-ins or ongoing support between sessions. These formats help people fit therapy into busy lives and keep momentum between appointments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, addiction, grief, parenting, anger, self-esteem, and career concerns.

What is her therapeutic style like?

She uses a collaborative, straightforward approach that emphasizes clients' strengths and practical steps. Sessions focus on listening, skill-building, and achievable goals.

How much experience does she have?

She has 20 years of professional work experience as a Licensed Professional Counselor.

Where is she licensed and located?

She is a Texas LPC and practices in Texas.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How are sessions paid for?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMotivational InterviewingTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Licensed

Texas

Languages

English

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