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Stephanie Southard

LCSW

Stephanie Southard , LCSW

Therapist in New York

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About Stephanie

Stephanie Southard is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) with more than 26 years of experience. She focuses on practical, skills-based therapy that helps people manage stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, and relationship struggles. She takes a calm, nonjudgmental approach and meets people where they are to set realistic goals together.

Her work emphasizes clear steps and hands-on practice. She often uses cognitive behavioral techniques to help people change patterns of thinking that keep them stuck. She also draws on acceptance and commitment ideas to help people live by their values when life feels chaotic.

Stephanie has long experience helping people navigate family and parenting challenges. She supports those facing trauma, grief, sleep problems, anger, and life transitions. She also works with concerns such as ADHD, bipolar disorder, body image, blended family issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and substance use problems.

Her background includes a Master of Arts in Social Work from Adelphi University and many years working in New York settings that involved community resources, courts, and child welfare systems. She combines real-world knowledge with practical exercises, like role playing and behavioral practice, so clients can try new skills between sessions.

Clients can expect a warm, relatable counselor who values clear goals and steady progress. She describes therapy as a collaborative process and aims to help people find more meaning, better coping, and less daily conflict.

Therapeutic approaches for online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, often called ACT, focuses on helping people accept difficult thoughts and feelings while taking steps that match their values. It can help with anxiety, depression, and coping with life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, concentrates on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety, insomnia, and low mood. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, teaches emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal skills useful for anger, relationships, and intense emotions.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to your goals, try out techniques, and adjust the plan as you learn what helps. Together you decide which methods fit your needs and daily life, and you can switch emphasis if something feels less useful.

Online sessions use video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. Video is good for deeper conversation and interactive exercises. Phone calls can be easier when bandwidth is limited or when you prefer not to be on camera. Live chat and text are useful for brief check-ins, homework support, or when writing helps you process thoughts. These options let people fit counseling into work, caregiving, or busy schedules while still working with licensed professionals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She helps with stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, relationship and family concerns, trauma and abuse, grief, sleep issues, parenting struggles, anger, career questions, bipolar and ADHD, plus related concerns like body image and caregiver stress.

What is her general therapy style?

Her style is warm and practical. She uses hands-on exercises, role playing, and thinking-behavior tools to help people practice new ways of coping and relating.

How much experience does she have?

She brings 26 years of clinical experience working in New York in settings that included community resources, courts, and child welfare systems.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) licensed in New York and practices from a New York background.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English, and she also accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How does payment work?

Cost varies by location and therapist arrangement; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling based on the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

26+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

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