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Susan      “Sue”(nickname) Wildermann

LPC

Susan “Sue”(nickname) Wildermann , LPC

Therapist in New Jersey

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About Susan

Susan “Sue” Wildermann is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in New Jersey with 18 years of experience. She uses a collaborative style and treats therapy as a team effort. Sue aims to help people untangle painful patterns and find practical ways forward.

Sue works with individuals dealing with family stress, parenting struggles, relationship problems, anxiety, depression, trauma, and grief. She also helps people facing ADHD, bipolar mood challenges, anger, self-esteem concerns, and career-related stress. Women’s issues are among the areas she lists as a focus.

Her background includes a master’s degree in the behavioral sciences and a professional diploma in marriage and family therapy. Over nearly two decades she has supported people affected by domestic violence and by community trauma such as Hurricane Sandy. Those experiences shape a calm, steady approach in sessions.

Sue describes her manner as easy to talk to and nonjudgmental. In conversation she listens first, then helps clients try new behaviors or ways of thinking. Many sessions include practical steps the person can test between meetings.

She draws on several approaches such as client-centered work, cognitive behavioral techniques, emotionally-focused and narrative methods, and solution-focused strategies. Together with each person she tailors the mix to match goals and life circumstances.

Sue’s practice blends empathy with clear problem-solving. People who want a therapist who listens, offers structure, and helps them develop skills often find this approach useful.

Approaches that translate to online care

Sue uses client-centered therapy to create a respectful space where the person’s goals guide the work. That approach focuses on listening, reflecting, and supporting each person as they decide what to change and how to move forward.

She also applies cognitive behavioral therapy, which looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and offers concrete skills to reduce anxiety, manage mood, and handle stress. CBT exercises often transfer well to online formats because they include homework and short practice tasks.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Sue collaborates with each person to match methods to their needs, goals, and preferences. Together they review what is helping and adjust the plan over time so sessions stay focused and useful.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. Video is good for face-to-face conversation and reading body language. Phone works when bandwidth is limited or a quick check-in is needed. Live chat or text messaging can support shorter updates, skills practice, or moments when writing feels easier than speaking. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into work, family, and life commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she help with?

Sue supports people facing family and relationship strain, parenting challenges, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, and stress. She also works with issues such as ADHD, bipolar mood concerns, intimacy problems, and career-related stress.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is collaborative and nonjudgmental. She listens first and then helps clients try practical steps and new ways of thinking between sessions.

How long has she been practicing?

Sue has 18 years of clinical experience working with individuals, parents, grandparents, and couples in New Jersey.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in New Jersey and holds a master’s degree in the behavioral sciences plus a professional diploma in marriage and family therapy.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

What formats are available for sessions?

Sessions can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

How does pricing and getting started work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesDepressionADHD

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Narrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

18+ years

Licensed

New Jersey

Languages

English

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