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Vanessa Statam

LCSW

Vanessa Statam , LCSW

Therapist in Wisconsin

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About Vanessa

Vanessa Statam is a Wisconsin-based licensed clinical social worker who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, trauma, low self-esteem, and depression. She approaches sessions with a calm, accepting presence so clients can talk honestly about what feels hard. Vanessa aims to make the first step feel manageable and to support people as they work toward clearer goals and small changes.

In sessions she listens first and then helps shape practical next steps. She uses conversations to identify patterns that keep problems stuck, and she offers tools to test new ways of thinking and behaving. This can mean working on communication habits, coping strategies for anxiety, or ways to rebuild confidence after hurt.

Vanessa draws on several therapeutic methods to match the person's needs. She uses client-centered techniques to follow the client's pace, cognitive behavioral tools to address unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, and EMDR for trauma-related symptoms when appropriate. She also uses existential ideas to help people find meaning and the Gottman Method for relationship conversations.

Her style is direct but warm. Sessions focus on present concerns and on steps people can use between meetings. Vanessa brings seven years of clinical experience as an LCSW and practices in Wisconsin.

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients. People can expect straightforward conversation, collaborative planning, and practical strategies tailored to their life and goals.

Therapeutic approaches and online care

Vanessa uses client-centered work to build a trusting conversation where the client's pace guides each session. That approach focuses on listening, reflecting, and helping the person decide what to address next and how to try different responses.

She also draws on cognitive behavioral therapy, which helps identify patterns of thinking and behavior that increase stress and anxiety. CBT gives concrete exercises and experiments to test new habits and reduce symptoms. For people affected by trauma, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, or EMDR, can be used to process painful memories and reduce their intensity when that approach seems appropriate.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Vanessa will talk through goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped in the past. Together the client and therapist choose strategies and adjust them as progress unfolds, keeping the plan practical and focused on day-to-day life.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation, phone sessions work well when bandwidth is limited, and live chat or text-based messaging can be useful for brief check-ins or when writing feels easier. These options make it simpler to fit therapy into a busy schedule and to keep continuity between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Vanessa commonly address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, and depression, plus related concerns like attachment, isolation, and mood disorders.

What is her therapy style like?

Her approach is client-centered and collaborative, with clear, practical steps. She blends talk-based work with tools to change thoughts and behaviors.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has seven years of professional experience working in clinical settings and community care as an LCSW.

Where is she licensed and practicing?

She is a licensed clinical social worker (LCSW) licensed in Wisconsin and practices from that state.

Can sessions be conducted in other languages or countries?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What formats are available for sessions?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Gottman MethodHypnotherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Licensed

Wisconsin

Languages

English

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