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Vani Burnette

LMFT

Vani Burnette , LMFT

Therapist in California

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About Vani

Vani Burnette is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California. She brings 18 years of clinical experience and a practical, down-to-earth style to sessions. Vani speaks English and Spanish and focuses on common life stresses that interfere with daily functioning and relationships.

She uses client-centered care to build a respectful, nonjudgmental space where people can talk through what matters most to them. Vani also draws on cognitive behavioral techniques to help identify unhelpful thinking and change patterns that cause distress. Solution-focused methods are used to set small, achievable goals and notice progress between sessions.

Vani has helped people manage anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, and relationship or intimacy-related concerns. She also works with issues tied to parenting, pregnancy and childbirth, postpartum depression, and process addictions such as gambling or exercise. Career stress, self-esteem, and feelings of emptiness are other frequently addressed topics.

Her background includes work with clients facing immigration-related stress, compassion fatigue, and codependency or control issues. Vani aims to tailor conversations and plans to each person's life, priorities, and pace. She prefers short, practical steps alongside deeper personal reflection.

Sessions may involve talking about past experiences, practicing new responses, and setting concrete next steps to try between meetings. Vani encourages people to move toward clearer goals, fewer roadblocks, and more meaning in daily life.

How therapy approaches translate to online care

Vani uses client-centered work to start most online sessions, focusing first on what the person wants to address and how they prefer to proceed. This approach emphasizes listening, respect, and tailoring conversations to each person's needs, which helps when adapting plans across video, phone, or text formats.

She also uses cognitive behavioral therapy, which looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions. CBT tools are easy to practice over video or phone and lend themselves to short exercises between sessions that people can try and report back on via chat or messaging.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Vani collaborates with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and lifestyle, adjusting techniques as progress or new concerns emerge. That shared planning helps make sessions feel relevant and doable, whether someone wants brief symptom relief or deeper personal work.

Online formats offer practical benefits. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation when that helps build rapport. Phone sessions can work well when bandwidth is limited or a quieter check-in is needed. Live chat and text messaging are useful for quick updates, brief coaching, or tracking small steps between meetings. Together these options make therapy more flexible and easier to fit into a busy life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

Vani works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting and pregnancy-related concerns, process addictions, and related challenges.

What is her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm and interactive with a client-centered stance. She blends cognitive behavioral ideas and solution-focused steps to make therapy practical and collaborative.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 18 years of experience working with a wide range of concerns, including emotional trauma, career stress, and compassion fatigue.

Where is she licensed and practicing?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a California LMFT credential and practices in California.

Which languages are offered in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Spanish. International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Therapy is offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working together?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

CodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityEmptinessFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeNarcissismPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Sexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Narrative TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

18+ years

Licensed

California

Languages

English, Spanish

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