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Victoria Ann Reid

BACP

Victoria Ann Reid , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Victoria

Victoria Ann Reid is a psychodynamic counsellor who combines talking therapy with practical tools. She holds BACP membership and has worked in counselling for nine years. Her approach is calm and non-judgemental, and she aims to make it easier to talk about difficult or worrying things.

She supports people facing stress, anxiety and depression. She also helps those dealing with questions about gender and sexuality, relationship struggles, grief, trauma and addictive behaviours. Victoria treats concerns about self esteem, intimacy, eating and anger, and she works with clients exploring neurodiversity, attachment and ADHD-related issues.

Sessions generally focus on understanding how past experiences shape current feelings and patterns. Victoria uses psychodynamic ideas to help people notice repeated patterns, and she brings in cognitive behavioural tools and mindfulness exercises when they suit the client. The work is conversational and paced to each person’s needs.

She welcomes discussion of more complex or sensitive topics such as BDSM and alternative sex culture, polyamory and non-monogamous relationships, gender dysphoria and issues around shame and guilt. Victoria emphasises respect and clear boundaries in every session so people can speak openly without being judged.

Based in the United Kingdom, she offers online sessions for people in English. To begin, people complete a short questionnaire and then schedule sessions that fit their timetable.

Therapeutic approaches for online counselling and support

Psychodynamic therapy focuses on how earlier relationships and experiences shape current feelings and behaviour. It helps people notice repeated patterns and make sense of hidden emotions that affect their daily life.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and actions. It offers practical steps and exercises to change unhelpful thinking and reduce anxiety or low mood.

Mindfulness therapy teaches simple awareness practices to calm racing thoughts and improve concentration. These techniques can be helpful for stress, worry and managing intense emotions.

Finding the right approach is a joint process. The therapist works collaboratively to decide which methods best fit a person’s goals and preferences. Together they adapt sessions over time so the work stays relevant and useful.

Online therapy makes it easier to fit counselling around work and family life. Video calls allow a face-to-face feel while phone sessions use less bandwidth and can be shorter for quick check-ins. Live chat and text-based messaging suit people who prefer written reflection or cannot be on camera. These options offer flexibility and make ongoing support more accessible for a range of needs.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor address?

Victoria helps with stress, anxiety and depression as well as relationship and intimacy concerns. She also supports people with gender and sexuality questions, trauma, grief, addictions and issues such as ADHD, self esteem and eating-related difficulties.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her primary style is psychodynamic work that looks at how the past affects the present. She also uses cognitive behavioural techniques and mindfulness practices when they fit the client’s needs.

How much experience does she have?

She has nine years of experience working in counselling and related roles. That experience includes work with people facing depression, anxiety, gender dysphoria and relationship concerns.

What credentials does she hold and where is she based?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international options are available?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What formats are available for sessions?

Sessions can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat or text-based messaging to suit different schedules and preferences.

How are costs and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementSelf esteemCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCommunication problemsControl issuesEmptinessFamily problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposePolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

9+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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