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Wendy Holmes

BACP

Wendy Holmes , BACP

Therapist in United Kingdom

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About Wendy

Wendy Holmes is a counsellor who focuses on relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related worries and life changes. She also supports people coping with stress, anxiety, depression, ADHD and issues around self-esteem. Wendy works with concerns common to women’s lives and offers a calm, non-judgemental presence during difficult conversations.

Her style is collaborative and down to earth. She invites clients to set goals and to work at a comfortable pace. Sessions aim to be practical and rooted in what matters most to each person. Wendy uses a mix of talking, reflective exercises and gentle techniques drawn from well-known therapeutic approaches.

Wendy has four years of professional experience and holds BACP registration. Her background includes learning in areas such as working with grief, trauma, sex and relationships, and approaches that focus on attachment and acceptance. She draws on that range to tailor sessions to individual needs.

She offers flexible formats including video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging. That variety can help people fit therapy around work, parenting or other commitments. Sessions are delivered in English and through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

To begin, clients are asked to use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability. Wendy aims to make the first steps straightforward and practical.

How these approaches work online and in sessions

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then focus on actions that match personal values. It can help with anxiety, low mood and life changes by tightening the link between what matters and what you do. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns of relating that formed early in life and how they show up now, useful for relationship difficulties and intimacy concerns. Client-Centred Therapy offers a warm, non-judgemental space where the counsellor follows the client's pace and priorities, helping people feel heard and understood.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Wendy will discuss options and tailor methods to fit the client's goals, preferences and practical needs. That means trying things out and adjusting what is used as progress and comfort evolve.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text messaging. Video allows face-to-face conversation when a visual connection helps. Phone sessions suit those who prefer not to be on camera or who have limited bandwidth. Chat and text-based messaging can be used for shorter check-ins, flexibility across the day, or when fitting therapy into a busy schedule. These options make it easier to maintain continuity when life is busy or when travel would be difficult, while keeping the focus on the therapeutic work itself.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Wendy commonly help with?

She works with relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy-related concerns, life transitions, stress, anxiety, depression and ADHD among other challenges.

How would you describe Wendy's therapy style?

Her approach is collaborative and down to earth, combining listening with practical exercises tailored to each person's goals and pace.

What experience does she bring to sessions?

Wendy has four years of professional experience and has developed skills in areas such as grief work, trauma-related concerns and relationship matters.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English only and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Wendy offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat and text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.

How are sessions charged and what is the cost model?

Fees vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are accessed through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start therapy with Wendy?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesCoping with life changes

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyLGBTFamily conflictsParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Licensed

See below

Languages

English

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