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Wendy Kesel

LCSW-R

Wendy Kesel , LCSW-R

Therapist in New York

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About Wendy

Wendy Kesel is a licensed clinical social worker in New York with 26 years of experience. She brings steady, practical support to people managing stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, grief, and life transitions. Her approach aims to make the first steps toward change feel achievable and less overwhelming.

She creates a calm, nonjudgmental space where people can talk through difficult feelings. Sessions focus on clear goals and practical coping skills. Wendy listens for patterns in relationships, communication, and self-image that keep problems stuck.

Wendy uses a mix of widely used therapeutic methods to match each person’s needs. She draws on cognitive behavioral tools to shift unhelpful thinking. She also uses attachment-informed work to look at how past relationships shape current reactions.

People turn to her for help with parenting stress, family conflict, intimacy challenges, and career concerns. She also supports those facing adoption or foster care issues, aging and caregiver stress, body image struggles, and the effects of trauma or abandonment.

Sessions can include practical exercises, emotion regulation skills, and conversational coaching to address specific situations. Wendy aims to help clients build habits that reduce anxiety and increase confidence over time.

Therapeutic approaches translated for online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It helps people clarify what matters most and take small steps toward those values even when emotions are strong. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at patterns of thought and behavior that keep problems going and teaches concrete steps to change them, which can help with anxiety, depression, and stress.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk about goals, try a few strategies, and adjust based on what feels useful. Clients and the therapist decide together which combination of ACT, CBT, or attachment-informed work fits best for the issue at hand.

Online sessions are offered by licensed professionals in formats that suit different routines. Video calls let people work face-to-face from wherever they are. Phone sessions require less bandwidth and can fit a break at work. Live chat and text-based messaging support shorter check-ins, written reflection, or ongoing coaching between meetings. These options make therapy more flexible for busy schedules and changing needs.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Wendy help with?

Wendy supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar struggles, grief, trauma, and relationship or intimacy-related issues. She also works with parenting and family tensions and career or self-esteem challenges.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm and nonjudgmental with a focus on practical skills. Sessions combine listening with exercises that target thinking patterns and emotional responses.

What is her professional background?

She has 26 years of professional experience in social work and clinical practice, helping people with a broad range of life and relationship concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is a LCSW-R licensed in New York and practices from that region.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What session formats are available?

Wendy offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyFamily conflictsParenting issuesCoping with life changesADHD

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

26+ years

Licensed

New York

Languages

English

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